Do you wear condoms?

[Ineedsomeanswers95]

Guys do you wear a condom when you hook up with someone new? Or only when the female wants it?

[bzcxx]

Always. Regardless whether or not she’s my girlfriend, friends with benefits or ONS. I will not take the risk of sexually transmitted diseases (for ONS) or the risk of pregnancy. Sex is fun and pleasurable, but I’m sure no one wants to be the dad of an “unwanted” pregnancy. As I am pro-life, I would find myself in a huge ethical conundrum if I engaged in unprotected sex and got the girl pregnant. Condoms surely diminish the sexual pleasure one feels during sex, but nothing feels better than safety.
Yeah I tried having unprotected sex twice (friends with benefits and partner) - yeah It was AMAZING in the moment but I spent the rest of the month overthinking and worrying if the girl’s pregnant.
Never again (at least not without another form of birth control).

[Ineedsomeanswers95]

Thank you for this

[bzcxx]

You’re welcome. Let me know if you have any questions.

[itsJay]

Always. Only time is if you both plan on it together and take proper steps to stay safe.

If anyone thinks it's worth taking the chance to change your life forever instantly just to have sex without a condom without precautions, they're simply an idiot.

[Ineedsomeanswers95]

Precautions? Like pull out method etc so talk about it ?

[itsJay]

No, more like taking a contraceptive pill, or using spermicidal lubricant, or planning to do it just before her cycle. Just pulling it out is not safe enough.

[PositiveFlight]

I don’t hookup with women. I have sex with a woman only based on true love, respect, and 100% commitment. So therefore there is no need for condoms. They are just a barrier between a man and woman in love when they need to feel that ultimate closeness.

[RobT312]

Yeah if I were fucking around with new people I would wear a condom always. But…I don’t do that anymore so no condoms for me

[Tyrael]

Yeah most of the time

[Ineedsomeanswers95]

Does the women ask you to put it on or do you just do it

[Tyrael]

I generally offer to put it on, but I've been asked before as well

[summiter]

When I was single I always used a condom unless we were in a LTR and she was on birth control. I did not want to be a young daddy or get an std.

[AviatorTom]

When I was single and not in a relationship, I wore condoms. When I was married (20+ years) and now (I'm in a 6-year-plus committed monogamous relationship with my SO), condoms are not used.

[misogynistic_pig]

Never.

[MysticDevice]

You know, I've never actually worn a condom. Things always just worked out where my partners didn't want me to have one on. Strange now that I think about it.

[Havthrills]

I wore condoms long ago. I'm not hooking up yet. Maybe soon? Lol. I don't think I'll wear one.

[Guardian45]

Only when I ABSOLUTELY POSITIVELY have to be there overnight!

https://youtu.be/DlsA2Aq1kOY

[FireFox001]

I do, always.