Does a dildo count as loosing virginity?

probably not but does it better prepare me? like will i bleed and will it hurt when i have sex for the first time?
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  • 'Virginity' has SEVERAL arbitrary definitions but the MOST common is ANATOMICAL 'virginity' = the intactness of One's Hymen-al flesh, no longer restricting substantial penetration of the inner Vagina.
    And, depending upon your physical foreplayed arousal and the skill of your Suitor, there WILL be SOME bleeding generally NOT as much as Menses ( you've torn sensitive LIVE skin) but it soon passes; 'lost' in the totality of the experience~

    You COULD however tease your Clitoris by vibration to affect sufficient neural arousal to reach a clitoral orgasm response and yet REMAIN a physical 'virgin'.

    SOME might argue if you DO 'climax' by whatever means, you'd no longer be a mentally a 'virgin'. Just as a once written upon or crumpled piece of paper is NO LONGER a blank sheet. In the fullest penetration, the sensations ARE substantially different.

    You COULD carefully anally self-play with a lubricated dildo and you would no longer be ANALLY a 'virgin'.
    The same would apply to oral experimentation, however the experience diminishes without the commensurate feedback sensations of texture and body heat as well as the aural appreciation of the Recipient.

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  • The dildo will break your hymen which will make sex easier your first time. You still are a virgin until a penis is inside you. Do you have a dildo that you want to try?

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  • Honey, the idea that you are intended to bleed after sex is such a misconception. While it isn't uncommon, it is not necessary nor an indication of losing virginity. If you bleed, it's usually because you did it wrong.

    As for the argument of virginity; it's more of a construct than it is concrete. Some people think penetration is the only way, while others think consenting sex is the only way, and others think any sex is losing virginity.

    Do what feels right for you and simply be safe.

    • A female who never had a penis in her vagina is a virgin by definition. Virginity is not a social construct. Either you have had had a penis inside your or not

  • It’s going to hurt bleed and do what actual sex will be like obviously. This all depends on what your religion or the guys is how this is counted. Some think it is to me it’s about that experience with another person. I lost my cherry to a penis shaped toy when I was 10 years old messing around on my own. But I consider my virginity lost to the first boy I had sex with

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  • No! It definitely does not count as loosing your virginity. Any more than breaking your hymen playing soccer counts as loosing your virginity, or breaking your hymen horse riding counts as loosing your virginity. You either had sex with another person, or you didn’t.

  • The questions the fake pink anons ask, especially when they already know the answer.

    Does a dildo count as loosing virginity?
  • I don't think so. Like I used them before when I was younger to prepare but like my friends still considered me a virgin even though I was using dildos

    • I agree. A penis needs to enter the vagina in order for it to count as losing their virginity

    • Yeah it's a different feeling lol so dildos definitely don't count

  • No it does not

  • No I use toys and I’m in celibacy

  • It doesn't count.

  • A dildo is not a penis. It's a dildo. It does not count as losing your virginity. Just as a speculum at the physicians office doesn't count as losing your virginity.

  • Virginity ends only with PIV or PIA intercourse.

    • Yes, objects can help prepare you.

    • @dargil Penis in ass does not erase virginity. An ass is not a vagina. I would figure that at age 30 you would know that.

    • @JuliaStyles Virginity is not about a hymen. It is state of mind and intent. Anal intercourse is penetrative intercourse.

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  • no it counts as masturbation

  • Probably not indeed.

  • No, it does not. You're still a virgin even if you use a dildo; don't worry!

  • No, a penis must be involved, lol.

  • Not sexually.

  • Virginity is the breaking of the hymen. You can lose it with intercourse or riding a horse. You can lose it by using a dildo or riding your pillow. (I had to come up with SOMEthing that sort of rhymes).

  • Women should never have pain or bleeding from sex, virgin or otherwise. When the time comes, tell your partner and if they respect you, they'll be gentle and loving. If they aren't, forget them. Good luck.

  • No. In order to lose virginity you need to do something sexual with an another person.

  • No it doesn't

  • No, only penis can take the virginity

  • Don't do this.

  • No... Smh

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