Does a dildo count as loosing virginity?

Question

probably not but does it better prepare me? like will i bleed and will it hurt when i have sex for the first time?

TheorionMage · Accepted Answer

'Virginity' has SEVERAL arbitrary definitions but the MOST common is ANATOMICAL 'virginity' = the intactness of One's Hymen-al flesh, no longer restricting substantial penetration of the inner Vagina.
And, depending upon your physical foreplayed arousal and the skill of your Suitor, there WILL be SOME bleeding generally NOT as much as Menses ( you've torn sensitive LIVE skin) but it soon passes; 'lost' in the totality of the experience~

You COULD however tease your Clitoris by vibration to affect sufficient neural arousal to reach a clitoral orgasm response and yet REMAIN a physical 'virgin'.

SOME might argue if you DO 'climax' by whatever means, you'd no longer be a mentally a 'virgin'. Just as a once written upon or crumpled piece of paper is NO LONGER a blank sheet. In the fullest penetration, the sensations ARE substantially different.

You COULD carefully anally self-play with a lubricated dildo and you would no longer be ANALLY a 'virgin'.
The same would apply to oral experimentation, however the experience diminishes without the commensurate feedback sensations of texture and body heat as well as the aural appreciation of the Recipient.

summiter · Accepted Answer

The dildo will break your hymen which will make sex easier your first time. You still are a virgin until a penis is inside you. Do you have a dildo that you want to try?

CriticalDiscourse · Accepted Answer

Honey, the idea that you are intended to bleed after sex is such a misconception. While it isn't uncommon, it is not necessary nor an indication of losing virginity. If you bleed, it's usually because you did it wrong.

As for the argument of virginity; it's more of a construct than it is concrete. Some people think penetration is the only way, while others think consenting sex is the only way, and others think any sex is losing virginity.

Do what feels right for you and simply be safe.

Vickymoore9 · Accepted Answer

It’s going to hurt bleed and do what actual sex will be like obviously. This all depends on what your religion or the guys is how this is counted. Some think it is to me it’s about that experience with another person. I lost my cherry to a penis shaped toy when I was 10 years old messing around on my own. But I consider my virginity lost to the first boy I had sex with

CrazyGirl2 · Answer

No! It definitely does not count as loosing your virginity. Any more than breaking your hymen playing soccer counts as loosing your virginity, or breaking your hymen horse riding counts as loosing your virginity. You either had sex with another person, or you didn’t.

JuliaStyles · Answer

The questions the fake pink anons ask, especially when they already know the answer.

SweetTay · Answer

I don't think so. Like I used them before when I was younger to prepare but like my friends still considered me a virgin even though I was using dildos

Thatasianlove16 · Answer

No it does not

ct1243 · Answer

No I use toys and I’m in celibacy

JPrez · Answer

It doesn't count.

kkirk4442 · Answer

A dildo is not a penis. It's a dildo. It does not count as losing your virginity. Just as a speculum at the physicians office doesn't count as losing your virginity.

Dargil · Answer

Virginity ends only with PIV or PIA intercourse.

chriscdi · Answer

no it counts as masturbation

HuTao · Answer

Probably not indeed.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

No, it does not. You're still a virgin even if you use a dildo; don't worry!

Wise4myage · Answer

No, a penis must be involved, lol.

Gedaria · Answer

Not sexually.

Meldrum · Answer

Virginity is the breaking of the hymen. You can lose it with intercourse or riding a horse. You can lose it by using a dildo or riding your pillow. (I had to come up with SOMEthing that sort of rhymes).

Glasgow55 · Answer

Women should never have pain or bleeding from sex, virgin or otherwise. When the time comes, tell your partner and if they respect you, they'll be gentle and loving. If they aren't, forget them. Good luck.