Does a girl lose her virginity if she sleeps with another girl?

Let’s say a girl is a virgin and has a drunk one night stand with another girl. Is she still a virgin? She’s had sex but not been penetrated?
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Not a virgin
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  • I think if you sleep with another girl it’s no different than you fingering or using a toy on yourself. Until you have another sex organ enter you, you’re still technically a virgin. However mentally you might not consider yourself a virgin because of what it took to sleep with this girl may equate to the same type of level reached if sleeping with a guy. So I guess technically you’re only still a Virgin when it comes to guys but otherwise you’ve had sex so you’re not a virgin with girls.

  • If there is no blood then you are virgin i personally don't care about if girl is virgin or not

    • We don't always bleed, I didn't and still haven't, does that mean I'm a virgin? WOOOO

Most Helpful Girls

  • It depends on your defintion of virginity.

  • Only if the girl uses a strap-on on her.

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  • A virgin is one who has never been penetrated. So if she has not been penetrated by a penis, she is still a virgin. Mere fingering does not take away her virginity, even if it breaks her hymen.

    • Your hymen breaking doesn't mean anything about your virginity. Sex is just one way to break it.

  • Then your golden, congrats your still a virgin.

  • Technical virgin is the term that you are looking for, and yes it's part of the reason why guys tend to be much less jealous about their girl being with other girl.

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  • That depends on your definition of virginity: no sex or no penetration or nothing in the vagina?

  • virginity is not having sex. having sex with a girl is still having sex.

  • People ask questions like this all the time, and to me penetration doesn't matter. A true virgin is pure and untouched. If you haven't been penetrated, you haven't had intercourse. But you still had sex/sexual activity.

  • Do you realize that you're basically asking if she had her first sex if she had sex? XD

  • On a technicality yes, although if you class "lesbian virginity" as a thing then you have lost that :)

  • I sleep with girls often. I'm not a virgin because of that.
    You're not a virgin either.
    A virgin is someone who has not done anything sexual with another person.

  • How dumb are you anyways?

  • What kind of sex? Oral then no.

  • I think traditional she would still be considered a virgin. Full penetration is required in that case. However, I see no reason for her to consider herself a virgin if she had sex with a girl.

  • Yeah

  • If we say that "it's only if you penetrate" then lesbians are literally forever virgins. Virgin should mean if you have sex, not if you get penetrated.

  • Still a virgin

  • Yes and no its all about your views on what constitutes sex.

  • No only if she has dick in her

  • Technically and physically losing of virginity means penetration into pussy.

  • If you look at sex as something done between a man and a woman, which has the potential to bring about a child, no. If you look at sex as touching between people that induces arousal, then yes.

    I love how men try to undermine female sexuality by making it seem as though lesbian sex acts are insignificant, when it really works the same way with men. I mean, two men can’t create a baby, so if lesbians are virgins, so are gay men...

  • Option B