Does a man not love a woman if he doesn't want to have sex after being married?

If he was a virgin before

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  • Sex usually goes along with love in a romantic relationship. It’s kind of a natural progression. My guess is something more is going on. He married her so he must love her. Maybe he found that he just doesn’t like sex. A small number of people are asexual or maybe he’s having performance anxiety being new to it. Maybe he’s afraid of pregnancy. She needs to find out from him because in my experience, once you give a guy sex, he keeps coming back for more.

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  • That's the problem with saving sex for marriage. It's preposterous.
    I wouldn't marry someone unless I knew we were sexually compatible.
    In addition, people who value virginity are bound to have sexual issues. Is it any wonder that he was a virgin before he got married?

    Now you're stuck with him. Imagine the rest of your life from now on. How appealing is virginity now?

    All I can suggest is getting the marriage annulled.

    • And who are you to decide who have sexual issues and who doesn't boomer? It becomes pretty normal for guys to get their ass eatean nowadays, do you do this? I bet not. So can we say you have sexual issues? :) You are a boomer. You were born during the whole sexual liberation era. So of course you like your women slutty and a bit into swinging. But most guys right now are not into that kinda of cuckholding stuff. To us, you are the deviant. And the way your generation lead society kinda proves it objectively.

    • And writer, if you want to become a single mom (don't know if you have kids), go follow the boomer's advice. Dump a stable relationship with a normal guy because he's normal and doesn't want to have sex anymore now he knows your body. You will end up at best in a new relationship that's gonna suck harder, or in no relationship at all.

    • @Reichmann75. And you know all about life, do you, Mr. GenZ? One of the weak, frightened, sexually confused generation. How can you even call a guy like that normal? "Normal" people have libidos. Maybe you are sex averse, but that's not normal, dude. Can you even call yourself a man? Of course you would expect a healthy person to spend the rest of their life in abstinence and misery because you think abstinence is virtuous, sex is wrong and icky. That aberrant guy tricked a girl into marrying him by withholding information. Why did he want to marry a female in the first place? Because he wanted a friend? Because he wanted a mommy to take care of him? What if it was the other way around and a guy with a libido had a virgin fetish but discovered that his virgin bride was averse to any kind of sex?

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  • I don't know. maybe sex isn't that big of a deal for him

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  • A guy eventually always waste sexual attraction to a girl he's been with for a long time. It doesn't mean he doesn't love her anymore, she's the mother of his children and most men value family. But at some point we just get tired of the same pussy. Men are wired to be conquerers.

    • Bruh he just got it tho 💀

    • Well maybe he just doesn't like the way you do it. Maybe you're just bad in bed. Maybe the dude is assexual who knows. But to answer the question, no, a guy doesn't need to have sex with a girl to love her. Most married guys can relate.

  • Not full story. Something is missing.

  • He can still love her.

    • Sure. Even defective people can love. How special.

  • no...

  • I don't feel like you're telling us the full story here.

  • Ohhhh he must do sex even he dont like her

  • Another reason why virgins should be avoided.