Guys, Does a man’s orgasm come before the ejaculation or at the same time?

[Anonymous]

[Dargil]

It is easiest to describe from a hand job because I could watch what happened.

*The first thing that happens is getting hard. My penis grows in length and thickens. In my case, I'm a "grower" going from barely 3" relaxed to about 6" fully hard.
*A single glistening drop of precum forms at the slot at the tip due to arousal.
*As arousal grows that drop grows and begins to flow down the tip.
*The next step is emotional. I reach a point in arousal when I am certain I will have an orgasm. "Ahh. I'm gonna cum!" It's a feeling of great excitement, like you just won money.
*When orgasm arrives, it begins below my knees and works its way to my shoulders. It feel like I'm "fizzing".
*Then I get a single penis twitch accompanied by a body convulsion. It pushes out a large dollop of precum. It feels like I am "clearing the breech" and chambering the first "round".
*For two or tree seconds after that excitement builds fast. My body tenses and I feel a sense of near extreme urgency.
*Then the ejaculation series then starts. Each contraction feels first like I am pulling in and then strongly pushing out semen is expelled and I get a strong feeling of relief, even euphoria and the stream may feel hot on the way out.
*I may get 4 to as many as 8 contractions. The first 3 are explosive, I may shoot a foot or so, and then they fade away into moderate.
*I get a feeling that I have been drained and I want to rest for a minute or so. I may want a cup of coffee to keep awake.

[turnpost]

You didn't answer the question. I think it happens at the sametime. It changes a bit. The release of the sperm feel good on its own.

[Dargil]

@turnpost My orgasm spasm starts maybe 1-3 seconds before the ejaculation contraction (spurts) series begins.

[Mystery1900]

Just before orgasm I get an intense feeling of pleasure in my penis that builds up until I feel a convulsion like a jolt of electricity and the penis starts pulsating with waves of pleasure. This is the start of my orgasm. I feel rapid pulsations in my groin and penis and then start to ejaculate a moment later. I ejaculate semen in forceful rapid spurts during which I continue to orgasm and my penis and groin pulsates with waves of pleasure. When the ejaculation ebbs away I continue to feel pulses from the orgasm fading away for a minute or so afterwards.

[PositiveFlight]

For me it has always happened at the same time. I consider them both one in the same

[Adventurer23]

Technically, it starts just before, but mostly at the same time, and can even last a little bit after as well.

[Astarlessnightsky]

Orgasm and ejaculation is the same deal, so at the same time.

[TadCurious]

My orgasm starts a little bit before I ejaculate and continues through the ejaculation.

[Miristheiss]

Same time.

[LiamSawyer]

It's the orgasm that causes the semen to shoot out. So at the same time.

[Bricealan]

Simultaneously. The semen squirting at the same time, is the orgasm, with the contractions, that occur with it.

[AviatorTom]

Ejaculation and orgasm are at the same time. Sometimes though, a guy can orgasm without ejaculating.

[Drumlin2001]

Same time

[FilmGuy93]

It happens at the same time.