Does a man with a mommy sexual fetish signify that he was sexually abused by his own mother?

[Anonymous]

People often tell me than when a man has that type of fetish in his mindset, it supposedly indicates that he has "mommy issues", possibly meaning that he was sexually abused by his mother.

[BellePepper]

Not all fetishes come from some sort of trauma. Maybe a guy who's into this didn't have a good maternal figure or home life. Maybe he has a very hectic and insecure job. No mater what it's possibly rooted in it's totally okay to enjoy a Caretaker/little dynamic in your relationship.

[Asker]

I ask because I myself have a mommy fetish. However, that absolutely does not mean I was either sexually abused by my mom or had a poor relationship with her. I love my mom but I just happen to have to get sexually aroused when a woman displays a great amount of maternal compassion. Pretty much like how mothers treat their babies like playing with them, tickling them and all of that, except in my fetish case, it's sexual (tickling and kissing me everywhere, including my penis and testicles).

[BellePepper]

No worries I totally understand. I have some roots in DD/lg myself. It's just like any other fetish. You are totes allowed to enjoy what you want as long as everyone is happy with it. I'm always happy to have more little friends if you ever want to chat.

[Asker]

And to add to my mommy fetish, I get even more aroused if that maternally compassionate woman has a thick and voluptuous/curvy body figure, especially since thick and curvy women first come to people's minds when they think of a sexually attractive mother or should I say "MILF".

[BellePepper]

Makes sense. It's the logical progression of things. If women are allowed to be attracted to older men bc they look mature I don't see why men can't do the same.

[Mindwarp]

I personally have that mommy fetish but I have a great connection with my mother. I think its cause I like having I nice kind but demanding and dominate figure in charge of me and my own connection with my mother I'd where it steamed from. Things that go with this is the breast milk fetish, being submissive and such.

[Lyndsielee666]

i'm in a DD/LG relationship and i've never had daddy issues. its a kink and people shouldn't jump to the conclusion of "mommy, daddy issues"
i see people bashing it all the time and tumblr and its pretty annoying if you ask me.

[Asker]

Tell me about it. At least your daddy fetish isn't as badly frowned upon as mommy fetishes, especially since it's far more socially acceptable for you to be a daddy's girl than for me to be a Mama's Boy. I can't even have just a basic great relationship with my mom without men and especially women shaking their heads at me. If I have a just a normal great relationship with a my mom, then women jump to the conclusions by assuming that I'm a very dependent and needy mama's boy. If I have a very poor relationship with my mom, women will jump to the conclusions by assuming that I'll become a misogynist and future wife/woman beater in a relationship. I don't know about you since you don't sound like a judgemental-type at all.

[Lucky_Charm]

I'm in a DD/LG relationship with a man who has a mommy fetish... We switch our role plays and it's all messed up;))... but at the same time neither him or me were in an incest. I can't speak for all, but in my case it's a desire to be needed, admired and unconditionally accepted by the partner. I believe there are some childhood traumas involved, but the roots are emotional. In my case I'm getting something I've always lacked on a very deep unconscious level and it makes my partner supremely attractive to me.

[Mesonfielde]

I don't think so, although that is a fetish I will never understand. It is quite creepy, despite that Sigmund Freud claimed this is an essential part of sexual development. I have my doubt's.