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Anonymous
I'm not a virgin guy but would not marry a non virgin girl because I think if a girl can't stop and save herself then she has not quality of a good wife and doesn't deserves me.
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The question is about guys and girl who want marry for the first time for sure widows or divorced women could not be virgin.
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43 16well i don't know about you, but i'm human and i have made mistakes, its likely that many people i will meet in life have made mistakes too, who am i to judge them? i'm not one to run someone down after their mistakes, i will rather pick them up and help them repair their future... and frankly speaking i'm not looking for a perfect girl, just a good girl, one who will mess up because she's human but stay loyal at the end of the day... and i will get just that because its what i desire, on the other hand who will marry the girls whose virginity YOU took away? be human and learn to love people for who they are and don't decline or reject them because of what they have done, carry on like that and you will die single and very lonely. be open minded and find love right in front of you.
You'll probably never get married so everybody's gonna be alright.
What makes you think a virgin wants to marry you what if she feels you dont deserve her because you didn't save yourself
This question kind of pisses me off, but I'm just going to give you this answer: whether or not a girl "deserves" marriage has nothing to do with her virginity. And who are you, or any of us for that matter, to say what another human being "deserves", anyway?
I'm who I am and have my standard maybe don't marry a murdered would be your standard.
Having standards is different than saying someone does or doesn't "deserve" something in their life.
Like, cool, you don't want to marry a non-virgin. Don't go saying that non-virgins everywhere don't deserve marriage in general. Sheesh.
Yes you are right its my opinion and I'm sorry to write it in some way that show I ask it in general. English is not my first or second language.
It's you again. Always the same questions just a different twist to it. I guess if a guy can't control himself and not wait till marraige either then he's a piece of garbage. That's how you look at it. So if you are not a virgin but thinks any girl that doesn't wait till marriage is garbage, the same goes for you big boy. I guess you are used up as well. Ewwww
hahaa noice noice :D
Haha thanks. Just calling it like I see it.
And that's what we call a double standard my friend.
It's your choice & if that's what you want then whatever ain't my problem, I'll just add-in that your personality seems very selfish (childish/?) & that might (will definitely) be a turn off romantically for her but who knows you might change your mind, you might not, you might get a virgin, you might not, you might lower your standards, you might not, you might be a FA, you might not, you might settle, you might not; who knows? Only time will give you that answer.
Tho I will add that I'm not a virgin & if my SO wasn't a virgin then I'd be okay with it (That is.. as long as her sex# is between 0-9#) & I'm a hypocrite too in the way that my sex# is far more than 9#. I stopped counting when I reached 30# tbh BUT I'm also NOT looking for a 7-9/10 (In the looks department) to marry either & I'm prepared to live my entire life as a bachelor IF I can't find a woman who meets my standards that wants to marry me. Sooo what I'm saying is for you to be prepared for the negative consequences & to not bitch about it if you don't get what you want...
#ButWatsUrsIsMine
im just gonna say something I heard, give love a chance.
Love is the most stupid word I ever heard.
really? cause its a cool word :D :D
No Love makes people do stupid things. love should be banned.
oh yeah Love makes people cray cray bruh :D best feeling everrrr fureals
Lol I love how calm you are even when addressing these trollers. :P This guy has to be a troll or a hypocrite. Or did we go back in time? :o Is it the 1600s again and we're exchanging female virginity for marriage and some goats? :P
@BuchitaBuchys hahaa :D im just calm and happy :D :D but you bring out the cray cray in me! xD hahaa!
Lol you're calm every time I see you respond. :) That's good though, especially with these crazies! lol I wish I had your patience sometimes :)
@BuchitaBuchys hahaa well I just take the internet for the internet. I expect nothing yet I expect everything :D hahaa. but we all like you the way you are, don't change gurl! ^-^
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I think I can guess who gave that one dislike. XD
how do you get to know if someone is virgin or not? :D
If she bleed its a sign that she is virgin.
i hope she fucks you when she's on her period that's enough proof she's a virgin... dick head...
Asker do you have any idea that some girls are either born without a hymen or actually broke it during horseback riding or doing other sports event activities? Even I as a male virgin, I'm not that dumb into thinking that a girl has to bleed to know she's a virgin.
lol ! lets find this asker and beat him :P :P
Like what some of the opinion owners here have said, the virgins who save themselves for marriage, deserve virgin guys. Even if she agrees to marry you, I'd feel sorry for her...
Non virgin guys don't deserve it either by that logic.
Are you calling yourself a man?
I'm a lumberjack who is certified to teach Jeet Kune Do. Do not think that you can emasculate me by shaming me for not conforming to your hypocritical standards.
NOICE! NOICE! :D
I mean seriously, if you want to brag about being a man, at least hold yourself to the same standards as women. Thanks @BertMacklinFBI :)
honestly that lumberjack comment was fucking boss hahaa.
Owned... haha
you are having double standards
if no girl is willing to lose her V, you think you can still be non virgin boy
Thats not fair to say, you don't know what the girl has been through. Aside from that there's nothing wrong with a girl to not be a virgin, it doesn't make her any less of a good person. You are probably missing out on chances with a lot of amazing women who could be your potential wife but u are too blinded by ur views and prejudices to see
I just want to do the right thing and choose a woman who I can trust.
@LovesTVDx might insight and wisdom in your words malady
@BertMacklinFBI thank you! :-)
I just noticed why did I say might? oh I think I forgot the y at the end hahaa
You are holding a double standard.
I am a virgin and only date other virgins. I refuse to lose my virginity to a girl who was not a virgin. BUT, I hold no double standards because I am a virgin myself.
So... You're saying that a non-virgin girl who, who you claim "couldn't control herself", without even knowing her background of how she lost her virginity in the first place, possibly she may have been married to another before having her virginity lost, or maybe even raped, doesn't deserve to be the wife of a non-virgin guy, who, for all she knows, couldn't control himself either.
Meaning that you're saying... it's a sin/taboo for a girl to lose her virginity before lawful matrimony... but its totally okay for a guy to screw as many girls as he wants before the same tradition... thereby possibly "unpurifying" more girls before marriage...
That's a... a pretty slimy way to think, bro... :/
It sounds a little stranger but for you but its true.
Whatever. You're entitled to your own opinion, but no one appreciates he who toots his horn for a hypocritical reason. And I certainly don't appreciate he who toots his horn for a hypocritical reason that tries to set the men apart from the women.
Everyone deserves marriage. What kind stupid question is that?
You, yourself HAVE to be first virgin if you want to marry a virgin chick.
So you are saying, you want to bang other girls... but want to marry virgin. Good luck.
Yes everyone deserve but a good guy is not a good match for a whore.
You are a whore! A manwhore!
And a good girl is not a good match for a guy with this double standard: a loser.
How a man could be whore? Tell me more about it its meanless.
So if guy sleeps around that doesn't make him slut.. male version of slut? .
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By logic you don't deserve her either. The girls I know who are into saving themselves till marriage want a virgin guy too.
Doesn't that make you a hypocrite?
No maybe we don't follow the same standards for moral.
What "morals" ? That boys can have sex but girls can't?
And moreover with who do you have sex before marriage, certainly it must be a girl. You kind of have sex with a girl and make her unfit for marriage from that moment on?
she is right