Does a sub need to be with a dom (personalities)?

[Anonymous]

Do more submissive people need a more dominant person? Or can a sub& sub, and a dom&dom work just as well?

[DavidFox]

Someone needs to lead and the other follow. Not in all situations but if no one steps up then shit doesn’t get done.

[nodnol32]

I'm a sub and i need to be with a dom (my girlfriend)

[AlexAndriatg111]

no they don't. Typically yes but then not. Impossible to truly answer. There are just too many variations between men women, gay, bi, trans, crossdressers, fems. People at work see me as a dominant man. But what they don't know underneath it all is that I have a very female like body and dress and am very feminine outside of work. I feel like a girl but am dominant even when I take a submissive roll. Im not attracted to men, ,, not gay but love the sex acts. I can be as dominant as the biggest strongest alpha male. Body hair and muscles etc. For one example. It all works. Generally not dom dom. Unless two gay men or females have a kink with overpowering each other. It all can change like the wind. As long as each of you assume the roll you desire. Being submissive can also come from dominance. In roleplay, as a dom, I may make/force the sub to perform on me any way I want. Its a psychological role reversal. I am an extremely dominant male even when I appear to be female and feminine. Sometimes with the right woman, I wish she would just be so crazy dominant that I can just lay back and enjoy her playful sexual angry fun craziness.

[iseekpinetrees]

Someone has to be a little more submissive.

[Bad_Man55]

I don't necessarily think the opposits need to be together but if two of the same get together it stands to reason that one will become more of the Dom and the other the sub.

[Kaneki05]

Depends what you mean by sub and sub and dom and dom. Would have to be more specific about what they like.
let's say both dom's liked pain be inflicted onto someone else but didn't like it on themselves how would that work? they both wouldn't be able to give out pain without the other not liking it. But if there both doms who just like playing rough one trying to dominate the other and they like pain that works.
This would be kinda the same as 2 bratty subs i think?

It really just depends what the person wants and if it will work.

[pigoat]

Yes otherwise personality clash

[magiusX26]

sub and sub or dom and dom do not work. it leaves one always being counter to their actual personality. meaning one is not being themself which will lead to frustration and eventually resentment. humans have been trying to prove this wrong for thousands of years to always ending up the same way. its sort of like trying to have 2 fully hetero people live as homosexual or homosexual people trying to be hetero. sorry but it is one of the few things in life pretty absolute.

[Twalli]

My girlfriend and I are both pretty submissive. We don't really take dim snd sub in sex, but we're more likely to acquiesce to something than fight for a our preference.

[Anonymous]

How can a sub be dom in other ways?