Does a threesome with two friends with benefits work out?

I have two separate friends with benefits (both guys, if it matters), who want to have a threesome, all together. I'm not so sure about it since I don't want them to suddenly feel uncomfortable or lose interest in me (which.. I guess doesn't make much sense now that I'm writing it down). The threesome part doesn't worry me, it's just about combining two friends with benefits. Has anyone ever had a threesome or more with multiple friends with benefits?
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  • No, I am neither a prostitute nor a hoe and I would not want to lose my dignity and self-esteem just because of a few pathetic muscle contractions and spasms.

    You must be the judge whether fornicating and copulating with people left and right is compatible with your dignity or not. It is not important whether you do it with 2 or 100 people simultaneously or whether you even do it.

    You created yourself a reputation and you have to know how you can live with it. I have my opinion about people that are willing to lose their dignity for muscular contractions and pornographic situations and acts like the one you describe.

    Whether it works out or not? It will not work out because all you risk, besides your reputation, is to jeopardize your health. Is it really worth getting STD/STI just for 2 minutes of perversion? Again, only you are the one that is able to answer this question.

    I do hope that you never get married and that you take your responsibilities for your acts. How will you explain to your children that in your younger years, you acted the way you did simply because you could not control your libido?

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  • Since they are the ones coming to your apt or, I wouldn't worry about fallout. Especially because they're both friends with benefits. If one of them was your boyfriend or husband then I'd say you might want to really think about it. But since they're just friends with benefits anyways and they've already decided amongst themselves that they both want it, I say just go for it if you feel like your want to try it. I can tell you right now that you're going to love it lol. There's nothing better, sexually, than being the center of attention for two men. It feels empowering actually.

    • Great, thanks for the advice

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  • No idea.

    Women used to make a lot of $ for this kinda thing. Now... it's "free", because women want it as well? Women like you are putting legit sex workers out of business, and that's unfortunate.

    My guess is your value drops from an already low level and they lose interest. You are no more than a disposable needle to an addict, and maybe they are to you.

    at that age, everything is fun and games, you aren't ever going to die or get sick, and you think you know everything, but don't know what you don't know. Fundamentally, I think you are way off track and heading for a heartache.

    but I could be wrong, I don't live in your world. It's your life... I just wonder whom trained you, what is your self esteem level, and for what purpose were you trained? What you wrote sounds like you have no value... thus one could assume... father missing.

    • No no. The guys women agree to get into friends with benefits relationships are high quality men but the women are average girls even maybe a bit chunky, you know a mo-ped type. A girl you hump until you meet a girl you want to get serious with.

  • Friends with benefits generally doesn't work out for women. They probably will agree to it because it's sex but find another friends with benefits chick or start dating someone serious. Eventually both will lose intrest in you regardless as a friends with benefits girl is the girl you hump until you meet Ms right not the girl you marry or bring back to meet your parents.

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  • No. There is the simple answer. The more complex one is that I would not do either. One, I do not have friends with benefits type relationships. If that works for you, great. It certainly does not work for me. I have zero interest in sex with someone unless I have an emotional connection.

    As for your question about how this will work out, I have no clue. The fact that you sleep around with more than one person is what would worry me. I would make sure both are sexually healthy and have tests done. To me, that would be my biggest fear.

    The next problem is jealousy between them I would think. Again, I have no clue because this is not something I would consider. I am only figuring that maybe there could be some jealousy issues.

    Not being familiar with the friends with benefits dynamic, I am not sure if this would ruin it for one or both of them. Ultimately, it is up to you and them as to whether this is something that interests everyone or not.

    • Thank you for your opinion, but since you don't have any experience with this I'm not sure why you chose to add it. And I get tested multiple times a year and so do the guys I sleep with. Nothing to worry about.

    • I added my opinion because you asked "Has anyone ever had a threesome or more with multiple friends with benefits?". My answer is no, I have not. Did I not answer the question?

  • Poly relationships are a false design. Three is a losing number and there is military research that proves it. Submarines... One person will lose out or be "ganged up" against.

    • I'm not in a relationship with either of them, though. This isn't about a poly relationship, just about sex

  • Totally going to depend on the two guys and how they feel about it.

    • They both know each other and both asked for the threesome. Especially since we're all friends I just don't wanna make it awkward

    • If the three of you are good with this it should go pretty well for you!

  • Bad Idea, u don't want the friends to meet. But just any threesome is cool.

  • If you want to try a threesome it’s a nice way to try. You are free of any relationship that could get hurt. My scenario was close…tried one with a friend with benefits and his friend with benefits. It ended up being fun, and in the end no strings attached

  • Haven't done it myself, but fill your boots. Have fun with it

  • No way don’t do any of that

    • And why would you say that?

    • Not good

  • I see nothing wrong with this because you are just friends and no one is cheating.

    • Alright, thanks :)

    • Your welcome

  • Isn't that the ideal setup?

  • If they both want, I do not we the problem. They probably both want to give you double pleasure. I personally would, but as long as I'm just touching the woman. It's all about her.

    • Alright, thanks for the opinion!

  • depends what you mean by "work out"

  • If they want i think u can do

  • It does if consent is given

  • Threesome is awesome if you play smart otherwise it ruin.

  • Seems like a challenge and potentially drama.

  • Not usually. Most guys are afraid to be naked with another man in the room. I think it's all about comparing cock size. I talked with a girl who tried to arrange a gang bang, and she couldn't do it. Lots of guys wanted to fuck her, but not with another guy in the room.