Does a vibrator feel like when you use a shower head down there?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend usually can't get me off I don't know if it's inexperience or he's stupid or if it's me. But when I'm home I have a shower head and ill use that and get off. So my boyfriend suggested getting a vibrator. I was wondering if that would feel the same as the shower head. Please no gross comments. Just want to know I don't need crude answers

[REALisRARE]

If your boyfriend can't get you off that doesn't make him stupid... it's your responsibility to help him learn your body, your likes, your desires. He's not a mind reader. And a vibrator feels pretty similar, except you can get pulsating ones, steady, all kinds of rhythms

[Asker]

I've tried telling him my likes and dislikes and what feels good but nothing he does gets me off

[Cmasterson]

It feels similar and different! I definitely would say yes to getting one! We use one occasionally if we want more, he can pleasure me but it just makes it even more fun.

[ScarlettVTFrey]

No. It will feel different but not in a bad way. It will be just a pleasurable, just different. Be sure to get one where you change the speed or beat/pattern of the vibrations.