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Does anal sex count as virginity loss? I did this girl anally and I threw up it was just gross to me and seemed wrong is this normal for guys?

Me and my friends were talking about this. Often girls in order to preserve there virginity they do sodomy but not vaginal. It counts as virginity lost still though right. If a gay guy has never been with a woman but has given or received anal sex from a guy he has lost his virginity and so if a girl does it then so will she have.
it doesn't count as virginity loss
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It counts for gay guys but not girls
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  • I would say on a technical scale -- YES, they're still a virgin. But it would be inaccurate & misleading to proclaim oneself as a "virgin" to others if they had anal sex. Virginity is about SEX, not sexual relations (otherwise french kissing, kissing nipples, and petting would be called "having sex"). Sex is inserting the penis in the vaj. So technically, anal sex isn't vaginal sex, but it's the same act, but just in an adjacent, "naughtier" hole.

    You know "bases"? They vary in people's descriptions... 1st base is usually making out, 3rd base is usually oral sex, and 2nd base is in-between -- but everyone agrees that home plate, or a Home Run is Actual S-E-X.

    Anal sex is like an infield homer. Yeah, it's a home run... kinda, in a different way. You almost want to put an asterisk on it in the box score. ;)

    SO it boils down to this: "Oh, she's a virgin -- but not an anal virgin."

    I would say a gal who's a virgin but not an anal virgin should instead say "I'm a non-anal virgin" or "I'm a vaginal-sex virgin".

    Just saying "I'm a virgin" is misleading. You never hit a home run, but you did have an infield homer - lol.

    • I'm one of those women! And I have so many mixed feelings about it! I feel like a genius & idiot at the sane time. I state I'm a technical virgin & am pissed to be called a non-virgin or a full virgin. It offends me for my friends who have/are holding out totally for marriage & not half-ass like me, no pun intended.

  • Very normal within the Mormon religion. When I was in the service, my second duty station was Utah and I learned about this first hand as there (no BS) truly is a phrase called "Mormon style" which follows exactly what you stated.

    In truth, who cares? If she offers the ass, pound it without second thought and don't worry about "status". However, to stay on topic, I don't believe it counts, technically as virgin status has, historically, originated about sexual activity within the vagina, therefore, it's a gray area. Or, as several women I used to know would say "God's blind spot".

    On a side note, I was extremely irritated when I first learned about being transferred to Utah but... it was a great assignment based solely on the women there (the area itself sucked).

    • Well, you know, when the front door's locked go through the back. ;)

    • Without a doubt. Master key and all...

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  • why would someone offer anal sex when they are not ready to have sex. just dont have sex. anal is like so much more painful than vaginal sex. i dont see the point of the exchange. f your religion won't allow sex than just wait, its not like she's getting any pleasure out of virgin anal. its pure masochism. its pathetic. makes me sick that women will do this. fine if they like anal. but just do do it bc you can't offer vaginal. pisses me off that women do oti to themselves and that guys accept it. plus oh just so disgusting. shit sex. what a freaking turn on "yumm."--gross.

    • I'm too convicted to offer vaginal until marriage, that's why I do anal instead. And strangely I agree with how you'd be pissed off. There's apparantly more than one girl who thinks they've found the loophole. More than one girl who's an idiot like me. I used to be proud of it, but it'll sink in for her too.

  • It counts as sex.
    But it's not normal sex. Anal isn't supposed to happen really, it's ok not to like it. Don't do it again if you don't like it

  • Anal sex is a form of penetrative sex in my eyes. Therefor yes, I'd say any girl or guy engaging in it is no longer a virgin.

    • fir that natter iral sex is still sex. so not really a true virgin

    • oops * for. * oral. lol

    • Yup. It's still sex too.

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  • I believe that virginity is only in the vagina. That's the original or main form of intercourse.

  • Is she a "technical virgin?"
    Let me guess, she came from a religious background.

    • Then she has double standards, because from a religious point of view it's still premarital sex.

    • You can have non-coital sex & claim virginity if you consider only that non-martial sex.

    • It's kind of what pathetic bitches who couldn't own up to their high school purity ring do, but whatever. I can say that because it takes one to see one. Not afraid to slam myself in the process.

  • I have done anal, I find it gross too so don't worry.

    Technically speaking men can't lose virginity, since men do not have Virginia's.
    So yes, virginity is normal defined as, without any sexual encounters. Therefore ANY sexual activity beaing anal, oral etc. counts as virginity loss , even if not technically so.

    • I disagree. Virginity is about having SEX, not sexual activity. Otherwise, french kissing would count or sucking on a gal's nipples. :) Now, anal -- that is a tricky subject. Actual SEX is like a "home run". Anal sex is like an infield home-run. It IS a home run, but it isn't, ya know? :)

    • If you can get STD's it's virginity loss in effect, but any sexual activity is from a religious/biblical/moral point of view a virginity loss.

  • anal sex is still sex. but technically she still has her cherry. . as fir men who never had pussy they ar missing out on 1 of the greatest. creations of this world. lol..
    I never puked after doing a gir anally. but it is a llil gross. best to doit in showet.

  • At that point, you're not much of a virgin any more

  • I meant to select that it DOES count. Any form of penetration by the genitalia, whether it be genitals to genitals or genitals to rectum counts in my opinion.

  • No it doesn't count. But yeah I guess it counts for gays. And I don't blame you for throwing up, I've never done it but the idea of it is so gross, I don't want to do it ever

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