Does anyone else feel like all they're good for is sexual stuff?

I don't have sex actually and I dress modestly but men on the street or at work call me sexy or they stare at my face or body and try to talk sexual stuff to me or tell me to wear sexy revealing clothes and makeup and get my hair done.

My body is 'sexy' and i guess i must have some sex aura or something because guys see me as good for one thing.

I wondered about Kim Kardashian and how she made her whole life around revealing her body and giving the public the sex and titilation they want from her. It seems like if you have a really sexy body, sex is all everyone wants from you. Its like she was forced into that role because of everyone around her.

And I feel like I could go down that road just cause I see in people's faces... And I am an empath so every emotion I pick up in others effects me immediately... I see it in people's eyes they have no respect for me and only look at me as a potential sex object. They see my body and I am guessing I give off sex vibes? And thats all they want to see from me. I won't get rewarded or valued for being hard working, smart, nice etc. Even if i am those things.

I think if I became a pornstar or something like how Kim basically parades around in public half naked or naked, giving the people what they want from her, then I will succeed. I will get praise, attention, move up in life etc.
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  • You're learning the hard way that it doesn't matter how an attractive woman dresses, she will still get unwanted attention. Wearing revealing clothing will gain even more attention. I know it's probably hard to ignore guys like that.

    It's an insult that they have no idea what kind of person you are in terms of personality and who you are, but they insist on only focusing on the sexual side of things towards you.

    As for some other women, some like any attention (I don't keep track of Kim Kardashian but she probably does too) they get from feeling sexy wearing certain things. Some people (like me) don't even pay attention to the attention from others. Then there's people who just don't even care when they receive attention.

    • I believe it can be a choice whether to like and cherish that attention or not. It is hard to ignore when pretty much everyone treats you that way. Women also objectify each other. Whether they envy my appearance or are attracted or what, I don't know but its there.

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  • There are guys that would see you for who you are on the inside and not just the outside. The first thing people see is the outside, so most people are just very shallow, don't let them change how you want to live your life.

    • Good point. People see the outsside first. Its just so hard to be surrounded by shallow people.

    • Don't worry, there are still good people left. I have the same problem, meeting shallow people everywhere. It's the society we live in, it's not you. Good luck :)

    • True thanks x

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