Does anyone else feel like they don't enjoy sex enough?

[Anonymous]

It's not that I don't like sex. I do like sex. I enjoy feeling connected with my partner. But I see people talking about how they LOVE sex, and I just can't relate. Like, these people who have insanely high body counts in their early 20s, where they just love having sex, so they knock out like 50 partners by the time they're 24.

I just see those people and I can't help but wonder how TF they're having that much fun. Even if you have good chemistry with the people, how are that many of them touching you properly? How are you not waking up in the morning thinking "what was I thinking?" God bless you. If you're having fun, you're having fun, but I can't wrap my head around it. It's actually got me wondering if I'm doing something wrong.

Am I the only one who feels like I should be enjoying sex way more than I do?

[PositiveFlight]

I’m sorry you feel this way. I very much enjoy sex. Its probably my most favorite activity with the opposite but I have to have that connection, commitment, and real love first. Sex just to have sex with lots of women is in vein and not respectable.

This is coming from a guy where even in my own religion and culture which practices plural marriage meaning a man is in more than one marriage at the same time with one woman in each marriage and a bigger overall family with many children and 3-4 wives.

Having a connection through sex with a woman (wife) or plurally is wonderful. But in order for it to be good, it must mean something with each woman and have serious commitment.

We live in a really twisted society nowadays where a man is hailed as being a stud and celebrated for getting around to as many women has he possibly can, yet if a man marries a few women, loves, respects, and is responsible to take care of each one, he is ridiculed and made fun of!

Sex whether in monogamy or plurally requires responsibility and then it’s the most enjoyable and wonderful thing there is for both man and woman. Otherwise it’s just playing with fire and the emotions of many women. There’s no real connection in such a situation. It’s disrespectful and a complete mockery! I wouldn’t enjoy that either!

[Billlewis]

My problem is that I don't think women enjoy sex enough. That's why I'm only interested in providing her with as much sexual pleasure as possible, and she'll always get the best results out of me if she restricts me from ever getting my dick inside her.

[MissBoogus]

I’m not sure but from what I’ve learned it’s way more for the girl anyways. In comparison to how a girl feels during sex, it’s not much compared to the guy. At least from what I’ve experienced. I’ve got a genetic condition though that means I have double the nerve endings. When I ask my boyfriend he also seems like it’s not that big of a deal for him

[BunBun369]

It all depends on who the partner is.