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Does anyone else find doggystyle “too intimate”?

My girlfriend and I have been together for four months and we regularly have sex in missionary or girl on top. I suggested we try doggystyle and she was hesistant saying she was self conscious about seeing her bent over with all her business practically in my face. I’m okay with not doing it since she’s uncomfortable and I don’t want to violate her boundaries but does anyone else think the same thing about doggystyle? It wasn’t an issue with girls I’ve dated in the past.

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  • Not at all. While it is not our favorite position, my girlfriend and I really love "doggie style."

    "Doggie style" is very natural, raw and animal. I am mounting her and controlling her and putting my seed into her. Her naked body is there for my use and I am on top of her, dominating her.

    My girlfriend likes it pretty much for the very same reasons, only from - of course - the lady's perspective. She loves the idea of submitting to me and giving me her naked body. She is face down and helpless and all she can feel is me inside her.

    Particularly when I penetrate her and then lean over her as I "hump" her. At that point we are just two animals doing what are instincts are driving us to and all we care about is the raw animal need for sex and to reproduce. (Actually, we do have three children.)

    At that moment, it is all about how were feeling and we hardly give a thought to anything more refined or intimate. Doggie style is about raw sex - beginning, middle and end.

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  • Never considered that? I suppose some girls would not like all of that exposure, and maybe why some do not suggest 'doggie' style sex, although a pretty woman suggested anal to me and never seemed to be bothered by my "view"

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  • ... she does know you're gonna be hip-to-hip back there, right? That you're not gonna be, like, face in her "business"?

    You can reassure her that you'll focus on her upper body, if she'd nervous. Or, fully clothed, just get into a similar position and give her some soft backrubs around where your field of vison is. That way she knows what you're seeing and maybe she'll feel more comfortable?

    It sounds like she's just self-conscious. Encourage, be gentle, and slowly work up her confidence.

    • Yeah, I didn’t want to argue with her because I don’t want to make her feel uncomfortable but these are good tips because I don’t want her to feel uncomfortable around me forever.

  • Not to intimate but yeas don't want my ass in your face!

    It's not intimate she does not want you seeing her in that position u idiot!

    Missionary is intimate

    Her ass is personal to her! Listen boob

    • Uh oh. I think I know who this is 😬

    • 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️👍Wow, yes this girl really "got in your face" LOLOL

    • If your ass is in his face during doggystyle, let me be the one to tell you! You're doing it wrong.

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  • Not at all but I guess if I didn’t like showing my partner my asshole then maybe it would be different.

    • Yeah, most guys are not disgusted with that either. But I can understand if some people aren’t comfortable showing everything to their partner.

  • Hell no.

  • No... its primal. No eye contact just raw sex. Missionary is more intimate

    • Is it primal in a good way though?

    • Depends. Everyone is different

  • I enjoy doggystyle, it’s one of my favourites. I have been with my boyfriend for 14 years though and we didn’t do that position straightaway, there was a work up to it.

  • People usually have the opposite complaint about doggystyle; they say it's too animalistic and dispassionate.

  • I consider it less intimate because I can not see my partners face.

  • No, its less intimate because you can't look at eachother's faces while doing it.

  • No, not at all.

  • With me , yes. I cried and cried and cried I was so nervous. Eventually, he got me in the position

    • You cried? And he kept going? Did you like it once you tried it though?

    • Yeah but I literally cry over anything so that was normal lol. He did, but very slowly and lots of communication. I also wanted to do, but wasn’t comfortable. Of course once it started I couldn’t think of anything else anymore and it was good

    • Oh gotcha. So it was a “good cry” 😃

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  • It is to her, but it depends on the person I suppose.

    One ex I had LOVED doggy and I pounded the $hit outta her

    New girl doesn't' like it much and can't get off from it and it's also painful because back issues so that sucks for me cuz it's my fav.

    Depends on the girl, and if you're LISTENING it obviously is intimate to your girl and you have to get her to really trust you

  • I have only had missionary sex... I'm still kinda new to sex. I can't wait to try it. What is it like as opposed to missionary? I'm still learning and just curious.

  • Some people are self conscious about that and understandable, but I don't find it so intimate where it would be off limits.

    • Yeah I can see how it would be off putting to have your partner see everything while the other person is just facing the wall. For a guy who is visually stimulated, I can see how a girl who is also visually stimulated wouldn’t find this position appealing unless it felt really good.

    • Exactly. And lots of women like seeing their partners eyes as they make love.

  • I think most girls want a manly guy to grab them and do them hard from behind.

  • Yes im like her but personally if he wants it I'll give it

  • No. I think doggy style is the opposite. It's dominant but not very personal because it's not done face-to-face. I think missionary is much more intimate because it is done pressed against each other with lots of eye contact and kissing.

  • Girls think it is less intimate, at least the ones I've been with. None of them cared for it with one exception, it was actually her favorite position. Probably because she had a nice ass and liked showing it off.

    • Yeah, I think for the girls who don’t care about showing their ass, they like it just because it feels better than most positions.

    • I think so also.

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