Does anyone else get shakey when getting intimate?

How do I get rid if it. Every time I try to get intimate my whole body starts shaking and sweating, it's impossible to stay hard, and my breathing goes out of control and my heart rate I'd like 160bpm. It's like I'm scared and I don't know why.
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  • Whether you are a troll or not, go seek both a Medical and Mental Health Professional

    • Def not a troll. I've had this for awile, ever sense I first got with someone the first time. It just frustrated them and made them self conscious if I even liked them. Also, medical and mental help is way too expensive. If I could I wouldn't be asking here

Most Helpful Guy

  • It has happened to me, mostly when I was young. I remember with one particular girl, both of us were like that! We were both so excited we could barely handle it. You just have to relax a bit. I know, that's easier said than done.

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  • Yess sometimes things get really intense and I feel that way. Thought it was from a rush of hormones but not too sure.

    • I wish it wouldn't happen. It stops me from any intimacy

    • Could be from anxiety too? Maybe you need to do something that relaxes you before sex

    • I could be extremely relaxed before doing anything and then boom, shaking. Cuddling is super relaxing but that doesn't help

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  • Do you get that reaction when doing heavy regular exercise? I’d ask your doctor.

    • Nope. Just intimacy

    • Ok good.

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  • is it a panic attack? or nerves?

    • No idea. Maybe panic attack?

    • that's normal. once you become comfortable around them you'll be okay

  • Sounds like performance anxiety… maybe putting too much importance on performance. Go slow and start with foreplay… she likely takes a little longer to relax into it too.

    • I shake during any intimacy. Forplay, I'd be shaing. Just kissing and a little touching on clothes I dont shake, anything past that I shake. It makes it impossible to feel satisfied with anyone and impossible to feel good for very long

    • I’m not a physician but I think it’s likely anxiety. You should talk to your doctor about it. Even though it is likely mental, there are medications that can help.

    • I guess I feel a little iffy about putting drugs/medication in my body

  • That's pretty normal

    • How is that normal? I can't do anything intimate

  • Some kind of performance anxiety

    • Well it freaking sucks cause its impossible for me to be intimate

    • does it happen always with the same girl?

    • Every girl I've ever been with.

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  • Sweaty palms, faster heartbeat, nervous when talking to a member of the opposite sex. Hell yes I do

    • It's only during intimacy