Does anyone else not feel its a big deal if they dont cum everytime during sex?

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A lot of guys don't seem to realise the differences between men and women when it comes to sex. We don't have to orgasm every time. Sometimes we just don't want to or sometimes we can cum before our man does or after, sometimes multiple times. Sometimes we can be feeling it but just can't get over that hill and lose it. Not orgasming every time doesn't mean we didn't enjoy it or the sex was bad or our man doesn't turn us kn or the eex was a failure. Believe me if we want to orgasm we will.
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  • Nah... This is precisely why some women end up faking orgasms :D

    In general, reaching the peak for women is influenced by various additional factors. Some may find satisfaction in being close to their partner, and in his pleasure. That's more than enough.

    Forcing a partner to feel something they are not ready for or simply can't in the moment isn't very considerate.

    • Often I will fake it to speed him up a little but if I want him to cum sooner.

    • Check your PM

    • Well girls have it harder to orgasm while man have it fairly easy like to reach a girls level of difficulty one men would need to cum 3 times consecutively without letting his penis rest so I guess for as long that the girl is satisfied her reaching an orgasm or not shouldn’t be a problem

Most Helpful Guys

  • I would feel like I'm doing something wrong if the girl I'm with didn't orgasm during sex. And I'd try to figure out what she needs to get off. I have good endurance so I can go however long it takes personally. I will say though that if she doesn't moan or react during sex that is bad for me personally, I wanna see her reactions and know I'm not the only one feeling good.

  • Huge deal, both man and women should cum and if they don’t have a right to feel aggrieved! If a girl doesn’t cum with me Inside of them (they always do mind) then I will go down on them until they do! Sex isn’t fun unless both parties cum at least once

    • Sex is fun whether I cum or not.

    • Really? But surely better when you cum a few times

Most Helpful Girl

  • i think guys need to cum everytime and it's easy enough to do but i just enjoy the sex whether i cum or not. guys seem to think they have to make me cum every time and they make it their mission which makes them brutish and dull

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • It not necessary for a female to cum, as it not needed for children.

  • It's not particularly important if I don't have an orgasm, but her climax is absolutely paramount.

  • Speaking only as a male, PIV fails if I don't ejaculate.

  • If a sudden doesn't come during sex it is a big deal, dudes can come from simple stroking so it's definitely something you should investigate

    • Dude doesn't*

  • This regularly happens to me if we attempt 'round 3'. With 60 you have limitations :)
    No big deal indeed.

  • I could live without it.

  • I don't want a woman faking her orgasm but I don't think it's a big deal if she doesn't cum every time. I can only do the best I can.

  • Yeah, it's not a big deal to me.. As long as the SO is satisfied so am I.. Although, it's usually a big deal to them if I don't do it..

    • Agreed. The concept of satisfaction is important. It can mean different things depending on the context.

    • @RedInnocent68 Most definitely..

  • Granted, it’s rare, but it’s the same for guys. Partners should focus on enjoying each other, not necessarily obsessing over completion.

  • The first time I ever had sex I was more focused on his orgasm than mine.

  • Just want to please my guy

    • Same

  • I don't have to cum everytime, but it's important that my partner does.

  • Wait what? I am so confused by all the double negatives. Are you saying you don't care if your partner doesn't cum or you don't cum?

  • She must cum

  • I think it's essential that both of them should climax...

  • I would actually prefer not to cum because I just want to keep the pleasure for as long as possible for the both of us. Sometimes the girl does not want that and may try different ways to get me off.

  • Yeah... im. ok if I don't make it.

  • i do not myself

  • I feel like if it wasn't a big deal it would take some of the pressure off. Between you and me, the meds I'm on make it hard for me to cum at all.

  • Yeah, there are times when I don't cum even if that was the intention and it's fine. Sex is great anyways.

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