Does anyone else prefer gentle domination over rough domination?

I'm personally a Sub when it comes to sex and relationships; I want the woman to be in charge. My ex-girlfriend more or less introduced me to Gentle Femdom (I don't think she knew what it was called though) by being affectionate when she took charge and even nicknaming me "Pet."
Does anyone else prefer gentle domination over rough domination?
That honestly felt good, being doted on and being called a cute nickname. And even during sex where the man is in charge, I like it better when the man is being loving, affectionate, and gentle when he takes charge. I'm not one for rough sex.
Does anyone else prefer gentle domination over rough domination?
I just really love affection, emotional intimacy, cute nicknames, and playful teasing. All of it just makes sexual activity so wholesome. Honestly, does anyone here prefer gentle, loving domination over rough domination?
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  • Sounds almost like a mommy kink (or at least what I think of as a mommy kink (a nurturing sort of dominate, just in your case without the title). I am somewhere in the middle here. I like to dominate a girl, I like to be a little rough, but I also like to be really affectionate too. I can get why some one would be into that, sense of emotional security and being taken care of and all of that. So not weird to me (even though I'm far more inclined toward being the dominate one, I can definitley say it would probably be fun to have a girl be an "affectionate dom" too).

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  • If it’s gunna be any kind of domination, gentle is the way. At least from women. As a man I like to be somewhat rough, my personality type isn’t conducive to being dominated, but if it was gentle and like a relaxation exercise I could dig it

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  • Gentle dom is amazing! You have a wonderful taste! The rough stuff is hot in porn when you're in the moment but I'd never ever try them irl. Gentle dom on the other hand is definitely my thing. I'd love to find a sweet man who'd let me shower him with affection in a gentle femdom relationship <3!

    • Did you answer a Gentle FemDom ask I made?

    • Any kind of femdom

    • Gentle femdom is a real asset to a relationship if you are a good match as a couple and have mutually agreed to a female-led relationship. For my part, I have subordinated myself to my girlfriend from the beginning and voluntarily and gladly perform the menial services that she orders me (kitchen and toilet service, shoe shine, pedicure, foot massage). Early in the morning after getting up I kiss her feet, and likewise in the evening before going to bed, so that my day begins and ends properly and to show her the respect she deserves. In addition, I also gave her the usual right to educate and chastise, as is customary between educator and pupil. This requires trust, of course, but she is 4 years older than I am and has insisted on keeping me under a bit more strict supervision from time to time. Misbehavior had to be punished, she said, and I had to submit willingly to the usual punishment rituals. So I just have to put up with it a few times when she strokes her slipper soles on my face cheeks and I have to thank her afterwards with a submissive kiss on the toe prints of her slippers. Ultimately, this only underlines the usual subordination relationship between femdom and submale.

  • I sometimes like it as a different experience from rough domming, but there's still an intensity to it.

    It's just instead of being physical release it's more like building physical tension.

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  • I like rough better.

  • Sure. She can gently tie me up, etc. anytime.

  • I am domination

    • That... really doesn't answer my question.

    • I am the question?

  • I do like more loving, affectionate, romantic sex but I do like it with a little bit of roughness too.

    • So you like when the dominant partner is being more loving, affectionate, and playful?

    • Yeah

  • No, bring it rough

  • I've never heard that term before, but I prefer gentle domination as the dominant partner.

  • wow the first pic fucked my brain up

    • I was trying to go for the most SFW gentle femdom pics I could find.

    • considered innocent. I've seen thousands of them. if we post it here and we'll get banned.

  • Not really

  • Yes I prefer it to be more gentle too. I'm not into the scratching or ball stamping stuff. Only smothering and tease and denial