There are people especially men who encourage boys and girls to have sex with much older people. I think they are creepy and gross.
Twenty years younger than I am is a 38-year-old. I’d call that a woman and not a girl. Forty years younger than I am is still an adult. I can’t see marrying a woman and leaving her a widow in her thirties or forties, but if a much younger woman wants to join me for dinner, what’s the harm?
A lot of people feel that way if the other person is old enough to be parent
If you mean by forcing or encouraging someone to have sex with someone, it's gross. But I believe age gaps has nothing to do with this. It'll be gross if someone would force a person to have sex with another person, regardless of their age.
It's a no go in my book. 7 years maximum. Sadly I haven't come across a couple with an age gap bigger than 7 years that lasted longer than 10 years.
It's about sex
I never mentioned relationships
Than still, the hairs in the back of my neck come creeping up at the thought of having sexual contact with someone older or younger than 10 years than me. At a gap of 20 to 40 years they'd either be in diapers or older than my father. Just no. Absolutely NO.
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One girl I knew in hs was seeing a 50 something year old man in secret. When she was 18 she stopped hiding it. Always grosses me the fuck out
40 is too much that's half a lifetime, but I as a 20 year old would sleep with a 40 year old just fine, probably give her better sex than she's had for like... our age gap ironically
But yea I understand your point about "encouragement", that's weird af
1000% creepy especially the old guys that creep on 18 year old girls 🤢
Women do it too
With that much of a age gap he can be your dad or grandpa, you don't have daddy issues. :)
How much of an age gap?
20 to 40 years
I find people that encourage casual sex to be gross.
A 20 year gap is too much in my opinion, a 10 year or less gap is fine if both are adults, but more than that us pushing the likilihood of it working out close to zero.
I also think casual sex in general is gross.
Unless they’re rich or celebrity its ok.
Yes, I do.
I have never experienced one of these people.
Well my mom was 17 years younger than my dad, and my last ex was 8 years older, age difference isn't to bad as long both are consenting adults, like a guy in his 40s won't be to bad if there around 25, but I feel uncomfortable around guys and girls in there 30s and later wanting to be with barely 18 year olds. That's a bit to much for my taste
If it’s 20-40 years then ya hahaha, but I think an age gap up to 10 years is perfectly fine and natural so long as the man is well established and the lady has matured quickly
And the other way around? 😜
@White_Widow White Widow!!! How have you been?
Depends upon the "size" of the gap.
I don't think it should be encouraged but if the girl likes the mature man says she's in her 20's and he's in his 40 -50 and like the "dad bod" as they call it then I say ok cool, prob some daddy issues somewhere there but fair enough and some younger guys like a cougar/milf.
I do believe people should date round their own age but aslong as they are all of legal age then what's the harm.
I don't know a single person who encourages it, but it would be weird to say the least. I mean... it is an unlikely situation that somebody goes up to somebody else and say "hey, you should do x-y, who is 20x years older than you". Again, werid.
But if it is (a relationship, that is) with consent and legal between two peole, without outside influence, I don't think anybody has any business in what other people do.
How big a gap are we talking?
All I'm going to say is... it's none of my business what other people do.. as long as they are happy who am I to judge..
Yep definitely disturbing
Not at all just depends on the size and gender roles, guys after 21 any age could be considered appropriate as long as it’s not reaching senior citizen level, women are tough call after 18 it’s ok to jump up to 22-30, i feel like if your gunna go any older tho you should wait till your at least 21 the level kinda doesn’t scale as well
Well they tell me the no age to love
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