Does anyone like to be dominated and talked down to in the bedroom? Who likes to do this to someone else?

[Anonymous]

So I was just talking to a guy that said his girlfriend wanted him to dominate her during sex and he found it demeaning and ended up breaking up with her over it. Personally I don't think it's demeaning as long as you both consent. We can't help what turns is on. When I'm with a guy I am very submissive and love to be dominated. I like to be handled roughly, spanked, have my hair pulled and sometimes slapped or lightly choked. I like to be ordered what to do and called names like "get down here and suck my cock you filthy slut". Being blind folded and tied up is also hot. I don't feel demeaned at all. It really gets me off. On the other hand when I'm with another girl I like to be the dominant one and can get really rough if she consents like tieing her hands together and fingering her hard from behind while pulling her hair and spitting into her mouth telling her what a workless slut she is. I don't hold back with the spanking and if we are very comfortable with eachother slapping her hard in the face while she's going down on me and telling her she better make me cum or she's going to get it worse. Is anyone else into this? The key is to talk about it ahead of time and set limits and make sure you are both comfortable with everything. Have a safe word. It is all fun and afterward I'll cuddle with my partner and tell them how fantastic they were. Is anyone into any of this? What do you like about it. If your disgusted by it feel free to also tell me why. I want male and female opinions. Kaylan

[Anonymous]

I don't like to be degraded

[Anonymous]

If I ever get any, I'd probably want to try being a bit more dominant as well.

[Anonymous]

yea its pretty fun