Does anyone think that an act of sex is gross?

To be honest, I do get attracted to many guys and I kinda like the foreplay , cuddling, hugging etc but when the time comes for penetration.. i am like i don't wanna do this. Is it just me?

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  • Gross or uncomfortable? Basically is it some sort of fear or hygenic concern? Knowing what it is will help you if you ever want to start enjoying it.

    That said enjoying it is pretty optional. I knoe a friend or two (male) who had hygenie concerns. He got over it but it was an awkward journey - for which he is happy now.

    As for the afraid of penetration part, I think it is fairly common and could list a few people I know who got stuck there for a while.

    As of yet not met anyone who stuck with the sentiment that it is gross.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I think the act is only gross when it’s done unnaturally. Anal, forcing a girl to swallow, and other things like that don’t appeal to me. But on the flip side, natural PIV and love making is beautiful and amazing. Not gross at all when it’s natural and done the way men and women were designed to interface with each other sexually, the anatomically correct way.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It sounds like either you've had sexual trauma in the past or you've never had pleasurable sex. Maybe it's time to work on learning about your sexual kinks and have a bit more "me time" when you can. Simply to learn how your own body works in that regard.

  • It's somewhat unusual, but not totally unheard of.

    • Thank you for the MHO.

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  • Is understandable. I don't like receiving oral, people have things they enjoy, abs things they don't.

    Is there a reason you don't like the thought of it?

  • Kind of yeah, when I first learned about sex the idea seemed nasty and gross. I am a bit of a germaphobe though.

    Once you learn that getting turned on and orgasms are like, then you stop seeing it that way. As now you start seeing it as what is likely to be the end result.

    Those that have no idea what an orgasm is, likely will be more likely to think it is gross.

  • I don't know usually that is the best part LOL

    • Can you dm me? I want your opinion on something

    • @Brando10222 LOL I rather not..

    • Its okay

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  • You not the only that prefer foreplay, but good luck finding a man who would give up on PIV.

  • You're just cockshy and asexual, is all.

  • I am grossed out by penetration, too. I only do foreplay and sex with toys/hands. I love to make women orgasm, but i hate the whole penetraction act

  • Unless she has an infection or smells bad, it is the total opposite of gross for me - it is the most natural and alluring thing.

  • I sure don't, but some people do.

  • In isolation, the sex act often seems absurd to me.

  • I think it depends how you do it, and who with.

  • Maybe it's not comfortable for you. Or you've had past bad sexual experiences

  • Maybe you’re looking for companionship? Instead ….

  • Most people like sex

  • There are girls who think this way. Not too abnormal

    • I enjoy the non penetration parts more than the penetration parts personally. But they both feel great

  • Its not gross it is sexy af

  • its your body
    your satification

  • Not gross

  • U mean u never tried sex?

  • Probably very rare but I could see it happening to some people