Most guys aren't turned off - but many are intimidated, which is a very different thing.
Why are they intimidated?
Some fear the fact that the girl will fall super hard for him, and become super needy and clingy and that she'll make him her alpha and omega - which is suffocating. And girls often do that with their "first."
Other guys fear that they don't know what to do with a virgin girl. They don't understand what a hymen is or they know it is "supposed" to be painful for her but they don't know why or how or how much they should care - and it just seems like a confusing hassle, when they really just want some sex.
If you find a guy who actually wants a RELATIONSHIP with you, he's far more likely to not be bothered by your status - he might still feel like he doesn't know what to do, but he's more likely to be willing to learn, and go through the experience WITH you, as a team. But, realistically, the hot, popular guys tend to not be looking for relationships, because they don't need a relationship to get plenty of sex from different girls, and why would they want to give that up for a relationship? So, if you're going after the hot, popular guys, you're not going to find guys who want a relationship (in general) very easily (much less want one with you specifically).
Focus on getting a boyfriend and a relationship, and let him know that sex is definitely on the table even if it's not on the table on the first couple of dates, and make sure he's into the RELATIONSHIP, and then when you are ready for sex, you can tell him about being a virgin and what that means to you and how to help you through that.
Thanks! I'll keep that all in mind
Virgin like never took a rod? Or like never touched/seen. A dick?
There are a few possibilities, but I would say in general it is far from a turn-off and is not something to be ashamed of. It could be how you stated it also. Could it be that the guys were mainly looking for sex with you; therefore, they no longer were interested due to you being more selective than other girls?
Not having sex, or kissing, shows that you have standards and respect for your body. If a guy really likes you for you, then he will not care if you are a virgin. tbh it would probably be a huge turn-on. Keep your virginity as long as you want and fuck the guys that just want an easy lay.
Im open (well I was...) asf about being a virgin and all that shit. So if we're talking, you'll probably find out a lot sooner. Lately I've been feeling like Im missing out or something because of my decision to wait lol... But thanks for that! Really needed it!
you're welcome. I completely understand what you are saying about missing out. It is the thing that everybody talks about and can't get enough of it, but you will only have one first. I imagine you will have many sexual encounters, whether with one person or several, and the one will remember is your first. I know it is stupidly corny, but I believe the first time should be with somebody that you can connect with on a personal level rather than just sexually. Let me know if there is anything else I can try to help with.
Thanks for that, I appreciate you heaps!
Maybe it scares some guys because they dont want to hurt you and want someone who can handle taking dick.
Others get turned on by the fact and want to be the one to take your virginity and can possibly make it special for you.. the right person will come but dont feel bad, its better to have ut with someone who wants to be with you.
You have made my whole fucking year! Needed that! 💯
Awe you're welcome love
To most guys it's no big deal. They may even get turned on more by the idea than if you were... err.. "experienced".
I'd suggest being a bit more selective in the guys you consider dating if one was dumb enough to call you a "frigid bitch" as he's likely not much of a catch anyway.
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Nope. It's not a big deal
That’s really odd. When I told guys they weren’t turned off at all.
Im talking to assholes then. Had one say "You're probably a frigid bitch" so that was cool...
Are you joking? Jesus Christ
I fucking wish I was lol
You have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of about still being a virgin, i say good on you. It isn`t a race, lose it when you want to and when you feel ready too.
It wouldn`t put me off at all being with somebody and she told me that she is still a virgin
No, it does not.
Not at all
That's weird. It's not a turn off for me and most guys I know.
My girlfriend was a virgin before we started dating and I got nothing to complain. 👌
Maybe some but for the right ones it shouldn't make a difference. Don't be ashamed of it, it's not a thing.
Contrary to modern popular opinion, one's virginity is still sacred and to be highly prised. I'm 24 and intentionally still a virgin, and I'm proud of that fact. You should be proud too!
Nope, my current girlfriend was and moved in. She has her granddad’s Winchester RR and is a good shot even on a horse so I think she is staying permanently.
I find it hot
Some guys will consider you to be a burden because you aren't already experienced with what they want, and they're afraid you will not be conditioned to accept sex on the terms they find acceptable.
Don't feel ashamed at all, its your choice and your body. If a guy can't handle that then they're not a good man or the right guy for you. I always felt embarrassed about not having had sex yet or my first kiss but its nothing to feel embarrassed about it doesn't make u less of a woman, just a person who hasn't had sex yet
Can I ask you a question
@stars1968 absolutely
Would you end a great relationship if the guy doesn’t have a big penis?
This sounds like bait..
Bruh...🙄
I don't know I think it's hot af personally. In 31 though and to me it's sexy just because I like the idea of being the first guy that makes you really truly love having sex. Like i like the idea of molding a young virgin into my own super slutty plaything.
Virginity is very attractive on many levels, but it should be saved for lifelong commitment in marriage. Men who do not like it are simply thinking the wrong way.
my opinion wouldn't really count because im a virgin too but men used to like virgins, I don't know what happened
being a virgin not so much. but if she never had an orgasm, that's kind of a turn off.
Some guys.
Some will see it as neither here nor there
Some will see it as a turn on.
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