Does being grossed out by cum mean that I don't like guys?

I'm sorry if it sounds silly, but I'm OCD and it's been weirding me out lately that I'm so grossed out by cum. I like penis, yeah, so why do I feel like I'm going to throw up when a guy cums on me? (I'm also attracted to girls by the way and it makes me feel like maybe I prefer girls over guys.)
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  • It doesn't mean you don't like guys. Heck, it doesn't even mean you will never like cum. Cum is actually quite wonderful. It will just take time, patience, a little bit of motivation and some good experiences for you to reach the point where you'll no longer grossed out by it, not mind it at all, then start to like it. It's an acquired taste sort of thing. It's well worth motivating yourself to do this. For instance I'm a big cum swallowing fan. I enjoy swallowing cum. I think it's great. But it wasn't always so! Years ago I started off just like you with what I would call "cum phobia." It took a few months for me to completely get over my phobia and to like cum. I did it and I'm very glad I did! One of the best things I ever did actually.

  • Maybe you are more emotionally attracted to guys rather than sexually. Nothing wrong with that... but ya it sounds like you have a preference to girls. I have a strong preference to girls. I am really only attracted to my boyfriend guy wise. I would be with a girl if I wasn't in love with my boyfriend.

    • I do think I'm more sexually attracted to girls, but yeah, like you, I hate most guys other than the one I'm with. lol. But I do find a lot of guys attractive. I just don't want to be with most of them. So far, I've met no girl that I'm emotionally attracted to.

    • Haha I don't even fine many other guys just attractive except for a few exceptions. I've had a crush on a girl but I didn't realize I was bisexual until I had been with my boyfriend for a year. Oh well :p I love him a lot so it doesn't matter.

  • Lol. No. Not at all. Are you turned on by some men? If so, you're not grossed out by them. You seem to be bi to me... and that's great. Many people don't like cum.

    :)

    • Yeah, I probably am. And yeah, I am attracted to men and I like penis. A lot. lol. Just not what comes out of them.

Most Helpful Guys

  • It's relax we are not worms which sperm can penetrate the uterus , destroy the ovaries and travel along the body till it reaches the brain and causing the death of females.
    www.ibtimes.co.uk/killer-worm-sperm-breaks-through-females-uterus-destroys-ovaries-1458873

    • lol um

  • This isn't that unusual. I've helped friends by telling them to associate those adorable babies and the ecstasy of orgasm with cum. It's just the fluid of life. Talk to your therapist about it.

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  • no and u r not alonne... many people find cum gross basically

  • I have dated 3 different women who, like you, were grossed out by cum. One would close her eyes when I pulled out and took the condom off because seeing it filled with cum would make her throw up. I never shot cum on her.

    I had another girl friend who was fine with me cumming in her but never on her.

    You are not alone in being grossed out by cum.

    • Yeah, that's how I am. Being in me sounds hot, but on my face or anything like that grosses me out. I gag and I know it must make my dude feel like he's gross or something, but it's just the texture of it or something. Last night his cum was actually a whole lot thinner and didn't really gross me out! When it's all thick and gooey, I literally think I'm going to throw up and it makes bj's more difficult. It also sucks because my bf just loves when girls swallow cum or have cum on their face and all that, but he can't do it with me because I don't think I can stand it. Haha. Inside me is different, though. I'm totally fine with that.

    • Everybody has their likes and dislikes and those should be respected. You can always suck him to the point of just about cumming then he can stick it in you and fill your p*ssy with cum. I love cumming on boobs personally. But if I were with you, I would never do that because I know you don't like it. As for consistency, the more often he cums the thinner it is. If he only cums once a day or once every few days, his cum will be thicker. If he cums multiple times a day it gets much thinner and cleare.

  • you have have OCD and like cum by way! No its like all things some like, some don't. nothing to worry about, if you prefer girls no issue either

  • Then technically you should be afraid of yourself, right? Don't you cum

    • It's different, though. Different texture, different smell, and I'm used to mine. I also don't put mine in my mouth. Lol.

    • You could

    • I would think that was gross too.

  • No I think it's normal to not want something that comes out of a penis all over you. It doesn't mean you're lesbian