Does calling men "Sir" sounds sexual?

[Anonymous]

Should I call men "Sir" ? I might be pervert I unintentionally sexualize it. Would men think the same?

[loveslongnails]

I live in the south and men call other men "sir" quite often. There's nothing sexual about it. A woman calling a man "sir" can be anything from just the way you speak in that region to a complete "come-on", depending how you say it! LOL

[NamerOfStars]

I've never thought of it, or heard it thought of, that way before; you're free to call men "Sir" without fear.

Although it would make Arthurian stories a LOT more homoerotically entertaining...

[ShiftingMonke]

As long as you're both wearing pants, it's not sexual.

[Asker]

What do you mean by pants? What if I wear dress?

[ShiftingMonke]

🤣😂 well okay, that works too. I mean, calling a man 'sir' is not, in of itself, sexual. I refer to other men I'm unfamiliar with in public as 'sir' just as a respectful term. Service workers do too. The word only becomes sexual in context and tone.

[Asker]

Whst if that guy called me "good girl" and "love" ? He doesn't sound professional to me

[ShiftingMonke]

That does sound like it's crossed a professional boundary, yes.

[Asker]

Yeah he is my doctor. He also put his arms on my "breast" by apologizing in advance. I don't think he "has" to. Even if he had to put his arms on my breast why he's calling me Love? I'm 25 he's in his early 40s. I sounded awkward to me.

[ShiftingMonke]

Yeah.. thats kinda not cool. Some older men do use 'dear' and 'love' to others in public buy there isn't usually intent behind it. But if he was touching your breast then yes, that does cross a line. Doctors should not be touching your breast unless it's part of an exam or checkup, of which it doesn't sound to be.

[Asker]

He was ultrasounding my neck, he put his elbow on my boobs. I don't think it was necessary. Also, He's not that old, that's my point. He's 37-42 max. I'm almost 26. If he were older doctor I wouldn't mind

[ShiftingMonke]

Hmm.. Maybe not a red flag, but a.. dark pink one maybe? I guess it's odd but if you didn't mind him doing that then I suppose it doesn't matter.

[Asker]

Not sure he might was being flirty... He couldn't do anything more

[ShiftingMonke]

He shouldn't do more. Any more is a violation of his hipocratic oath.

[Asker]

That's why I'm saying... He was "on the line" I'm not exaggerating in mind then?

[ShiftingMonke]

I wouldn't say so, no. He was on the line, if not slightly crossing it.

[Asker]

I wasn't sure if everything was in my mind 🤦🏻‍♀️

[Mansipatil]

Call him daddy

[Roller69]

Love it!!

[Roller69]

Hey Mansi can help me with something? I am sure it's only you who can help me with this out of every here ig.. 😊

[Mansipatil]

@Roller69 sayyyy

[Roller69]

U can at least tell me why or why not.. :/

[jshm2]

No. Don't be daft.

[Dargil]

Deferential to me. I've been called that by a girl in a sexual situation. Southern girl. It was both embarrassing and flattering. She said it in good humor.

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, thats just a title meaning it's a man you don't know the name of.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Daddy sounds better. Calling me sir in bed would most likely shoot all of the blood in my dick back up and out the left side of my brain.

[AngryCarl2]

If you are working in customer service you may call men sir and women madam. Calling your social peers sir will be very disconcerting for them and will mark you as a weirdo.

[In_Trance]

not really

[andy530]

It does to me but I’m into it

[CubaPirate]

I'd quite enjoy that tbh

[Anonymous]

Only if he's holding a paddle