The fact that you cheated should of been your answer to walk away and move on, you truly don’t love your partner if you can go screw someone else so you are wasting your time going back to your husband , Your husband is going to have a lot of resentments towards you and anger that you did that to him, so treating you like a slut is probably the only way he can have sex with you cuz the love really isn’t there anymore , Men are very territorial when it comes to girls especially ones they marry , so the fact that you damaged that bond of your marriage with him. You pretty
Much destroyed it , you are probably best to divorce and move on and accept that you destroyed your marriage
I don't think he abused you because you were a willing participant. However, I don't condone his behavior. But I certainy don't condone your behavior, either. Does it justify his behavior? No. . . bt it certainly explains it!
No, but both actions are horrible. You shouldn’t have cheated and he shouldn’t have done that.
Both actions are unacceptable
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Two separate issues, both wrong in every possible sense. It's understandable to feel degraded after being abused, it's also understandable to feel degraded after being cheated on. But none of these feelings justify either of the actions in question.
If you mean rough during sex, I mean a slap on the wrist maybe.
If you're talking about straight up abuse you have a police matter on your hands.
Nothing justifies abuse
Nothing justifies abuse.
In my opinion, cheating on him justifies nothing. If he can't handle what happens and he should walk away from the marriage. I don't care what type of abuse it is, it's not okay.
There is no excuse for being abusive
If you cheated on him, that's proof that sex is more important than relationship to you. So why can't he do the same to you? What's good for the goose is good for the gander.
Not at all. No excuse to be abusive. If he's unhappy bout the cheating he should leave
It definitely does not justify what he did. You may have made a mistake, but what he did was a crime. If you didn't give the ok for him to do it, it's rape. Plain and simple. Nothing anyone could ever do to someone could justify rape. He should be in jail.
No. He shouldn't have abused you. He wasted his time. He shoulda left you a long time ago!
Cheaters deserve anything coming to them.
What the fuck is wrong with you?
No, but it pretty much is why he doesn't respect you as a person anymore.
Uh duh. Its not surprising. I mean cheating is abuse and so its no surprise if you get some back.
Cheating isn't a crime. What this guy did is a felony.
@DGravez6 nobody said crime. If you abuse someone it really shouldn't be surprising if they abuse you back.
She's asking if what she did JUSTIFIED him being rough with her when it wasn't something she wanted. If she didn't give the ok for him to do that, technically that's rape. Yes she made a mistake by cheating but nothing justifies rape no matter what type of rape it is. And the fact that she feels degraded tells me she most probably didn't concent to that.
Although cheating is Unforgivable, there is absolutely No Excuse for a man forcing himself on any Girl Period.
No. It does not!
No, cheating is not an excuse to be abusive.
Forget sex, I wouldn't even let you into the house in the first place
Well there is reason his hurt as fuck
Reason for rape? You're kidding right?
Seems rough not rape and this lady would know the difference and she never said rap
Unless she concented for him to be rough, in the eyes of the law that is absolutely rape.
Why did you feel like you needed to cheat on him if you believe in the sanctity of marriage? It doesn't give him the right to be abusive but at the same time why were you abusive to him
Doesn't excuse because 2 different things it but I wouldn't have sympathy for either. Breaking or divorcing has a chance to recover but cheating means they are your worst enemy and you don't care if they get hurt. There are even horrible toxic partners who refuse to cheat because that's crossing the line. Nobody trusts a cheater with anything because if they were honest they wouldn't cheat
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