Does choosing to be a virgin past 21-23 (mature adulthood) make a difference in your life?

I mean like do you see the world/ things/ relationships and people in general (your perception & judgement of world, your ability to judge the world) differently compared to those who are more involved in everything sexual & romantic?
Does choosing to be a virgin past 21-23 (mature adulthood) make a difference in your life?
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  • Still a virgin at 26, and not really makes me feel like I have been missing out on relationships, fwbs, makes me feel unwanted, and invisible to most girl's. I do feel lonely and wonder to myself why I can't get laid like my friends. :( I like talking about sex because I'm very horny, but doesn't matter if I can't contribute anything other than just fantasies I have :^/. I do get lots of sex dreams, and feel inadequate sometimes. Feels weird because I have no idea what is real sex, or real relationship. All, I know is porn, masturbating, fantasies, & what I see in movies. Overall makes me feel lonely, and have lots of insecurities. :(

    Didn't want to be a virgin for this long but shit happens.

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  • I think the main difference is not having kids. So the whole idea of being a parent and having children to take care of -- which is the position that most of my friends are in -- is completely foreign to me. I feel like I'm living in an alternate universe to everyone else.
    I mean, don't get me wrong: I do NOT mind not having kids. It saves me a lot of trouble, I'm sure (from what I've heard lol.) But it just feels weird sometimes. Like I'm not really living. I'm just a ghost peering down on humanity from the ethereal mist.

    • Thank you for the MHO.

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  • I think it mainly depends on why you have chosen to save it until then.
    Like I would've lost it if I had a girl into me, but I didn't.
    We've gotten past the stage where people lose it to lose it, rather than it be special.
    I think we have more appreciation for things than sexually invested people and we see a lot more

  • Personally I'm going through therapy due to underlying reasons so I can't really form great relationships , but it's made me more self aware of just being happy in your own skin
    I think someone who hasn't had sex aslong as they aren't focused too much on finding someone or the act they have much more free time to discover who they are mentally, emotionally and spiritually, and yes sexually at a certain time when they are ready
    I've started to just relax now and just be patient

  • Nah i waiting for marriage also i wanna please God 🙏 before pleasing h0es innit fam 🤷‍♂️ 🥵🥵🥵

  • I wouldn't know. I lost my virginity at age 10.

    • Holy cow! In the 1950s?

    • @Jamie05rhs Yup, "babysitter" gave me my first blowjob and it was the first time I actually ejaculated.

    • Wow! So what did you think about that?

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  • A lot of posts I see from girls is that once the experience sex, they wished they lost their virginity sooner.

  • No you are just Not having Sex

  • yes. It helps you to concentrate on your goals.

  • If it changes anything its for better