Does cum leak out of vagina after sex?

A practical question: we've had sex for the fist time without condom because I'm on the pill now, and after he ejaculated all his semen leaked out of me with a huge mess on the bed!
Do you have the same problem? What do you do?
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  • As others have stated, that's usually what happens. Here's how my wife and I deal with it. We've been married for close to 10 years so we don't use condoms. Pregnancy prevention is not an issue since I had a vasectomy years ago and she has an IUD to try to regulate her monthly cycles. Obviously our preferred way is to use the withdrawal method. (hence, my username) But sex still gets messy and wet even before I ejaculate so we keep a dedicated blanket to fold up and have under us so the bedding itself stays dry. We usually communicate in advance as to where it's going to end up when I start spurting. 9 times out of 10 we make sure we're in the missionary position at the end so when I pull out, it just ends up all over her stomach and her chest. That is easily wiped up with 4 or 5 paper towels which we keep (a roll) next to the bed. Once in a while some of it ends up on her neck and then onto the pillow, but we keep a separate pillow for her to use just in case that happens and pillowcases can be easily washed. If we're doing it 'doggy style' when that magic moment arrives, when I pull out it usually ends up all over her butt and the back of her legs and often dribbles down onto the bed before I can clean up my mess. That's where the blanket comes in handy.
    And the 3 or 4 times a year when we're feeling like doing something a little different, I'll just leave it in at the end and you're right; it all tends to leak out afterwards (and during, if there's really a lot of it) and make quite the mess on the little blanket.
    And yes, you could get up and run to the bathroom right away, but if he ejaculates a lot, like I do, then you will have the wonderful experience of having it dribble down your legs and onto the floor while you're trying to make it to the bathroom.
    The withdrawal method plus the blanket works the best for us, but everybody is different.
    Hopefully that helped.

  • me and my girlfriend try to clean up right after. but if you don't want to do that get some tissues or a towel and leave them by the bed

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  • Hehe lol YES but I have never called it a problem. You take a shot glass, fill it about 3/4 full of a googy slimy sticky liquid, then lay the glass on its side! What happens? Yes the stuff dribbles out of the glass. Exactly the same thing happens in our sweet little pussies. Its not like we have a one way door at the opening of our vagina, so what goes in will run out.
    Solution either lay a towel down before fucking or change sheets at some point after fucking

  • Yes, it happens. He can still keep wearing condoms if the mess is of issue. You can put a towel under you or ask him to ejaculate on your tummy and wipe it up. I only have one fluid bonded partner now and I usually just get up and use the toilet and clean up a bit that way.

  • It's unavoidable if he's finishing inside you. What goes in must come out. Usually I just have him pull out and do it on my stomach, so I can just wipe it up with a towel and be done with it.

  • Not a problem. I swallow. No muss, no fuss. Yet one more reason why oral sex is superior to sexual intercourse. :)

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  • 1. Have a washcloth handy. (Not Kleenex because Kleenex will shred and be messy.)

    2. Do the penguin walk to the bathroom. (Knees together, holding washcloth down there.)

    3. Wipe or shower.

    4. Use a liner that night and next morning.

    • ^^^this

  • Oh babe.. it's an erotic way of cumming.. n called as a creampie.. enjoy it to the core..
    i suggest even if u r on pills.. please ensure he uses a condom the next time u guys get cozy n do stuffs

  • You put a panty liner in or shower.

    Wipe what you can first, of course

  • Keep a small towel or his t-shirt handy. It is completely normal.

  • Lol. Get used to it! I usually go pee immediately after sex it all slides out then. then come back to cuddle.

    • Yep, she needs to get used to it if she's going to have sex.

    • @KatherineJ going pee after really helps if she doesn't mind delaying cuddling a couple minutes.

    • Yep-she'll learn that it's always a good idea to delay the cuddles to go pee.

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  • It's normal haha

  • Go to the toilet, take a shower, wipe it off... The options are limitless.

  • Yes it does and it creates a wet spot on the bed. I position myself so that happens on his side :)

  • Oh how I've missed this place 😂😂

  • Even if you're taking the pill use condoms next time to be protected against stds.

  • It's normal. I don't worry about it.

  • Gravity isn't friendly with us girls. Yes, it comes back out. I usually just put in a panty liner.

  • yes its called a creampie

  • It's normal, lass.

  • Yes this is normal. Have a paper towel closeby and the moment you get up place it on your "hole" and walk to the toilet. Sit down and pee while "pushing out". That will flush almost all of it. My girl does that.

  • Yes it does, just wipe it.

  • Yes, this always happens. Put a towel under you when having sex.

  • It's normal to happen

  • Lol could u keep them inside u? Of course its going to leak out.. 😂