Does EVERY guy masturbate?

Well, I have never masturbated in my whole life and I don't intend to, I don't have physical necessities that needs to be stimulated by hands. Yes, I am a prude and think it is disgusting but not wrong. What disturbs me is when I talk to other guys or my teachers, I think about whether they had masturbated or not frequently, or watch p*rn . It is disgusting to me. There is this guy that I like and I think he feels the same way, but I am not sure if he does masturbate. I hope he doesn't! Disturbing thoughts come to mind and when holding his hands or have him holds me disgusts me to think he used that hand to pleasure himself. But-not ALL guys do it, right?
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Since when did people turn this into a bashing forum to create a better self esteem to themselves and take pride in "beating" a newly turned 18 year old girl?
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  • When I was really young (like13) I remember my friend pressuring me to watching p*rn , after I did I could never see married people with children the same way, because disturbing images of those two people having sex will flash in my mind; my uncles, aunts, and even parents. So from there I was disgusted by sex.(them having sex, me having sex)

    If you are disgusted by guys masturbating or watching p*rn , it will be pretty likely that you were exposed to that kind of knowledge at a very young age (like me)

    Soon your though on it will change, [ex] just how 2 years ago little johnny like chocolate chip cookie but know he likes oatmeal cookies.

    [know to answer your question]
    One day a team of scientist set out to see how would 20 year old guy's brain would react to first seeing p*rn . The experiment was cancel after a few days, BECAUSE they couldn't find a 20(nor 18, 19) year old guy who hasn't already seen p*rn .

    so... yes, if a guy watches p*rn he will get the tingling sensation to masturbate.

    But before you judge us (I know I'm writing too much)

    Not every guy is proud of doing it, I personally think it is a curse on man, but I can't help it, I had try to stop (you know what I mean) but you have to understand the urge to do so is 1,000x powerful than the urge to eat more. I HATE doing it, and some guys also feel the same way.

    Best of luck @nonymous

    • Oh come on, I'm surprised people base their entire image of sexuality and more importantly "physical intimacy" on hardcore P*rnography and gangbangs.

  • Every human eventually masturbates. Some just do it more often than others. Of course if you have a hot wife and you already get a lot of sex, there's less of a need for it, but a lot of married men still do.

    Not masturbating can be really dangerous for your physical and mental health. I'm serious. There's no good reason whatsoever not to masturbate. Sport athletes, soldiers and comedians pretty much have to do it to relieve stress and tension.

    I've also heard in a documentary that people who never masturbate have a higher chance of becoming unstable and committing horrible crimes. Because such sexual privation is akin to keeping feelings of anger and sadness bottled up inside. And strong emotions without a catharsis/outlet can increase the chances of developing cancer or depression.

    • I object. What about me? I don't masturbate hence your statement that every human masturbates is invalid.

    • What about Asexual men and women?

    • You're under 18. A lot of people go through that "I don't masturbate cuz it's gross" period lol.

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  • Alrighty. .. most guys masturbate, the ones left over have still probably done it at one time or another.

    I do think you should talk to someone about your issues... it's normal for under-18s to have some hang up relating to sex at some point, but yours sounds like it has gone a bit beyond that.

    Now, I've been reading the other opinions and your responses... pretty much all of them (including mine) have said the same things, but you insist that there must be ONE guy ("but not ALL guys, right?" And you say other stuff that makes me think you're referring to your guy.. not the general population) who hasn't, and you're looking to these people to affirm what you want to believe. These people are trying to give THEIR opinions, not give you a mirror image of yours. That's what GaG is for, to get opinions of others. They took the time to give you their opinion, to try and answer your question, and you're not the least bit respectful, or even appreciate.

    • They don't respect me at all. They make sexist remarks and despite loving sex, know surprisingly littl about the health behind it. They start insulting the bible and deter me of freedom of speech or entitlements to personal opinions.

    • Just because they don't respect you does not mean you should not respect them. You get more flies with honey then with vinegar... instead of trying to be kind and educate them, you're really just trying to spite them and prove them wrong, which is not Christian at all.

    • Or catholic if that's what you are.

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  • If you really like this guy and genuinely care for him, you're just gonna have to get used to the fact that he probably has and will continue to. Its just nature for most people. Not only is it healthy but actually helps with better focus. Im not saying you have to masturbate. Im not even persuading you, im just saying that most guys have masturbated and still do. If you're really curious, just ask him. If he has, tell him how you feel about it and just see what he says. If he's willing to stop for you. Good luck (:

    • But he might say he will stop if we have sex or something and we are both self professed virgins. The graphic imagery is disgusting for me. I've tried to watch p*rno once but I chickened out. I am that much of a prude and I cannot help it. But I have no intentions of changing it. This is how I am and will be.

    • I understand. Its just who you are. If he can't respect that, just let him go I guess? It's gonna be hard to find a guy that will agree to these conditions, but not impossible. Maybe he will be okay with it? Maybe he hasn't even masturbated. Just ask

    • How can I ask without sounding intrusive or invasive? We are starting out as friends and if I jump into this topic, he might see me as a casual fun person, which he says he is definitely not.

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  • I've known a couple guys that claimed not to because of religion... but they were having sex before marriage so I don't particularly believe them.

    It's human nature to masturbate. Babies do it in the womb. I'm not kidding. You sound like you might have some really unhealthy attitudes about sex and cleanliness, bordering on OCD. You might want to speak with a trusted adult, a counselor, or clergy. I have to wonder if you were hurt as a child and have developed a repulsion against sex.

    • It is not a funny issue. I walked in on my parents having sex so many times and even when I slept in between them. I am not trolling, it was a very scarring sight. I also saw my mom having sex with another man.

    • I don't think it's funny, either. I really think you should talk with somebody. It sounded like you'd been traumatized in some way, and you need help. You're developing neural pathways that cause you to picture disturbing images whenever you look at hands. You need cognitive behavioral therapy, or meds (like beta blockers- specifically propranolol) to interrupt these pathways and prevent the short term memory into becoming long term.

    • You should be glad your parents have a healthy sexual relation. Although I do admit, her having sex with another man is a bit of a problem.

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  • I wouldn't go as far as to say that ALL guys do, but the vast majority do. Humans are sexual beings, it's normal to have desires and to masturbate so you'll have a very difficult time finding someone who does not do it.

  • Just about every guy as well as every girl masturbates. Unless they're religious, asexual, or can control their urges and those people are slim to none.

    • Actually correction there are also people that don't find joy in masturbating I actually know one myself that's where you'd fit in, but that's basically the same as people that can control their urges. But like I said there are VERY few. It's just something you're going to have to accept and get over.

  • You're so painfully under 18.
    No, some guys don't do it, but they're pretty rare.

    • Thanks for being nice. Today is my birthday and I just turned 18.

    • Mhm :D happy birthday.

  • I'm sorry to say but MOST guys do masturbate.

    • But not ALL, right?

    • Little kids don't lol

    • Actually a lot of little boys do.

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  • I want to say yes but I've heard on GaG actually at least one person claimed they didn't for personal reasons... I think it was something about sperm but I can't recall.

    so my answer is most men masturbate maybe nearly all except for those few like the one I just mentsioned.
    there may be religious men who don't too.

  • no , most guys just do and I think its gross you talk to your teacher about it

    • Did you MISREAD? I did not ask my teachers about it. It is inappropriate and embarrassing for university. It means I can't imagine the people who I respect and look up to professionally does it.

    • I think they briefly mentioned it to us in health class when I was like 12.

  • I masturbate. I'm sorry if that offends you? Should I not do it?

  • I'd say that the guys who don't masturbate are one in a million or something close to it.

    • He might be one in a million though.

    • He might be, but it's statistically unlikely. And besides you can never know for certain.

    • Can a relationship ever work with abstainance?

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  • Why do you find it disgusting?
    the actual act itself? (sex is gonna be a surprise for you then if it is lol)

  • Yes, all guys do it. We generally don't have sexual hangups as you appear to.

    • But what about the guy I am seeing? Surely he doesn't do this, not all, what about asexual guys?

    • Truly asexual people are exceedingly rare. Any normal guy does. Including the guy you like.

    • That is disgusting :( I can't be with him like this. I have to be lesbian then? Or find an asexual guy?

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  • Not ALL guys masturbate, no.

    Generally speaking though, the vast majority either have, do, or will.

  • i masturbate and i'm proud about it

  • I think all you really need do is worry about yourself and your situation. Your views are important and valuable too, in my opinion.

    If you're upset he may do those things, masturbation or p*rn , ask him. Go on a date, spend time with him, and if it's that important, you must bring it up.

    What if he did it before, but was willing to stop while you dated?

    • I will never stop him. As I said, everybody is entitles to their own rights, but I don't want to date him anymore. I will leave him be as I am a waste of his time and also he is to me, and we differ in libido so it's obviously not going to work out even in the long run.

  • Well technically, for males, you either masturbate, or you have wet dreams. I'm guessing you know what it's like to bleed into your pyjamas during the night even if you don't intend to do so, imagine that with sperm. Most people don't like having to wash their pyjamas afterwards, so they'd rather choose masturbation as the outlet.

    Although technically, there's nothing objectively wrong about it, considering the sex drive is a part of most of the human population and is typically a part of all biological lifeforms. Therefore, your prudishness is far more unnatural than the behavior you speak of as "disgusting".

    • Congratulations. You read that I'm a prude. Above. Yoohoo! I find sex disgusting and I have NO plans on changing my views on it and EVERYONE is entitled to their OWN opinion?

    • Ah, another person who has chosen to deliberately remove themselves from the gene pool. Enjoy the ride. You missed the point of "masturbation being necessary to prevent nocturnal emission".

    • I KNOW THAT AND IN EMBARASSING BODIES THEY SAID IT PREVENTS PROSTATE CANCER. I SAID I FIND IT DISGUSTING BUT I HAVE NO PLANS IN CHANGING HOW I FEEL TOWARDS SEX NOR EITHER WILL I WHORE OUT AND SLEEP WITH EVERY MEN IN THE UNIVERSE. p*rn IS A SIN ALSO!

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  • Are you asexual?
    Anyway. Unless he's asexual or super religious with amazing willpower he has probably masturbated.

  • Your profile says 25-29 and yet you say newly turned 18 year old girl. Your feelings and opinions are your own, what disgusts you should not be the topic for a public forum. If the subject of masturbation disgusts you, how does venting your feeling here benefit you, or, for that matter, anyone else? Bashing, by whom?

  • I don't do it. I've tried on occasion, due to feeling like I should.. but I always end up feeling awkward and stop. I've never successfully "got results" with it. Only time I can "get results" by myself is when I'm asleep :P

    I think I have some issues with my thought processes, though, so I don't think I can speak for normal men.

    • Are you circumcised? That would explain why you are having trouble.

    • Nope! :P Just grew up differently. Have a different mindset for whatever reason. Honestly, without wanting to get too heavy, I think it has something to do with under-confidence; like not being able to truly believe that my fantasies could be real, so then I can't get "into" them enough. It's like my brain stopping myself I guess. LOL I'm working on it though.

    • The reason why *I* masturbate is to prevent wet dreams. I honestly loathe nocturnal emission, and my wet dreams were abnormally surrealistic and they kinda freak me out. And to erase the state of arousal. I envy those who do it for the pleasure, I feel close to nothing XD

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  • yes, they all do. some more frequent than others.

    • Hanks for your opinion.

    • oh nice! I needed some hanks ^^ I hope you know that when they don't, they have wet dreams.. if they don't they're impotent.. wet dreams is worse than masturbating in my opinion.

  • Yes... For those guys that say they don't masturbate, obviously they're the ones who mostly masturbate, but is too ashamed to even tell... For those people who proudly says he masturbates a lot, that means they only do it a few times... But that's just my opinion though, I don't know with the others.

  • I say every adult male, that isn't asexual or highly religious... masturbates.

    • Thanks for your opinion

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