Does fingering actually feel good if you have a hymen?

I have the necessary organs (don't ask, not important) so I tried fingering myself once. It did not feel good. But I've been told that sex the first time is supposed to hurt too, and after your hymen breaks then it will feel good the next time.

I'm not going to do that though, so for those of you who have, is that true for fingering as well? Does it not feel good until after the hymen is broken? If not I guess I just did it wrong, but I don't see how you could do that wrong. There aren't very many ways to do it...

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  • Some people just don’t enjoy fingering, and that’s natural. Before and after losing my virginity, fingering has never been enjoyable, whether I’ve done it to myself or it has been done to me.

  • Yeah everything felt really tight and sore until my hymen broke, I still continued to get sore from sex for a long time after. I think it took a year or two before I really got comfortable

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  • I don't think that virgins should be fingering, you can be masturbating on the outside.

  • If you are not a woman you don't have a hymen. Hell if you aren't a woman you don't even have a vagina

  • I’ve never had a hymen but I’d like to think playing with the clit which is the bit on top outside does the business, but females are best placed to give better advice

  • I am a virgin and still have a hymen, how would fingering myself feel good... nvm lol I'm not explaining. If your a woman you'd know

  • I'd not finger a chick. I'm a guy who does things my own way vanilla I'd imagine with a woman, aka, inserting fingers, vomits 🤢🤮 so turn off. Toys, same thing, then off. I'd say that chicks will say anything to please their lover, however however... there's lots of liars out there. I wouldn't personally. Id love my woman, not treat her like a 🥩

    • (piece of meat emoji, in case anyone's slow) lol 😆 🤣

  • You're a guy. So you don't have a hymen. Troll.

  • I massage my asshole. It’s a muscle. I also kegel. Works both ends. I imagine same for women.

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    • For trolling?

    • I'm pretty sure I'm allowed to ask questions about anatomy and sexual activity on this site. There's a whole category for it.

    • Guys don't have a hymen, dupshit anyone who has a basic sexual education knows that.

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