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Does getting your dick sucked boost a guy's ego?

I always noticed this, not only with guys I did things with frequently, but even more so with guys I only did it with one time. When I am going to give a blowjob, I know it's a not exactly a classy act. It's submissive and quite slutty (not that that's a bad thing in those situations) and I kinda have to get over that voice in my head saying "you slut" and just go "alright! let's get it on!". But I notice for guys it's kinda the opposite. The way they stand, how they treat you and act afterwards is like they changed from before the blowjob. Of course they have a smile on their face but they tend to act extremely self-assured, confident, a little more cocky (lol) than before. Does it really boost a guys ego so much? How come? And guys who haven't gotten that, does it make you feel worst or insecure or annoyed if you don't get that?
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  • The act of a woman taking your dick in her mouth is a very intimate thing and some would say more so they intercourse. And to be fair a bit of a privilege to us that you allowed us to do that, as a lot of women won't. It's also a bit of validation that you found us desirable enough to do it. I know people do see it as a dominance thing but I don't. Obviously there is the pleasure side of it too but I don't like it if the woman isn't enjoying it or doesn't actually want to do it.
    It kind of touches my soul when a woman sucks my dick and is enjoying it.

    • So to you it's mainly the validation of feeling desirable enough for us to get over that 'slut step' as I call it?

    • Yes but it's more than just validation. And I would never consider a woman who does it a slut. I've had sex with my fair share of women over the years and only about half are actually happy to do it and enjoy it, more so of recent years. This makes it all the more special, as there are women that will have sex with someone but not be prepared to suck dick, and then the women where they are happy to suck dick. It feels like any straight woman will take a dick in the pussy but only some will take it in the mouth. That's seems kind of special to me anyway.

    • I have a completely different views on bj's I guess, lol xp Not to make you feel less validated by the girls who blew you, but I have given blowjobs to guys I didn't like that much cause a blowjob isn't as intimate as being penetrated to me. Like I would sooner blow a guy I don't have much feelings toward for his birthday, than I would go further with him.

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  • " When I am going to give a blowjob, I know it's a not exactly a classy act. It's submissive and quite slutty". Don't confuse submissive with nurturing or slutty with eager.
    It certainly can be. It can be done in a loving, nurturing manner.

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  • they might get more self assured... but guys generally are extra nice if you give them blowjobs and swallow their cum... they do want you to dress in a certain way... they want to see plenty of leg and kind of being willing to suck them when they want or they get cranky... but sucking a man's cock definitely boost's his ego.

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  • Oh, I'm sure it feels deeply satisfying for a guy when he gets his dick sucked by someone, and I think it's much more prestigious when he can release his semen into their mouth and savor the intensely pleasurable sensation of having his penis sucked all the way through his climax.

  • No. A girl enjoying sucking my dick is an ego boost.

  • Once complete, grab your things, I called an Uber, come back tomorrow for the same thing.

  • It can boost guys egos yes, but only if its a good blowjob. As you stated its a submissive thing to do so guys see it as it brings dominance to them.

    • So to you it's mainly the mental part of this dominant vs. submissive power exchange?

    • Yeah it does seem that way

  • It doesn't do shit for me! So far.

  • I wouldn't say it boost the ego. More like we're riding on a high of dopamine from the intense pleasure.

    On a side note, I never really viewed it as the girl being submissive. I always thought of it as her being in control seeing as I'm on my back and she's got total control over my sensitive bits.

    I always made sure she knew how much I appreciated her doing it when we were done.

  • Sure, but its more about how good it feels.

  • First off I don't consider a girl a slut if she gives me a blowjob and secondly is does kinda give us a boost because you are doing something that most don't do and you showing us appreciation. It also makes a feel dominant and feel better.

  • I have only had o e good blow job and it was definitely a good time. I wouldn’t call it a boost though. It but it was from a girl I didn’t know. So it was just fun and whatever. If I got one from a girl I liked It would totally be a boost in my ego.
    also I do t think anyone thinks of giving bjs as “slutty” unless it is a random girl asking a random guy if he wants one out side on the street.

    • You say you think see it as slutty if it's a random girl blowing you. And the one blowjob you got was from a random girl you didn't know. So did you see her as a slut for doing it? Or were you just thankful?

    • I paid her for it… so yeah! Lol!

    • haha ok so she was an actual hooker?

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  • I wouldn't know..

    ._.

  • Yeah blowjobs are amazing

  • not really

  • Nope.

  • It doesn't Change my feelings. It just feels great

  • It often can.

  • ywssss 😍😍

  • Does it boost a girls ego when she get's her pussy licked? It's the same feeling for guys and girls.

    • Well, not really honestly

    • Yes, I agree, it's not about ego, it's about pleasing your partner.

  • It puts some spring in a guy's step, especially if he knows she'll be a reliable source for draining his spunk in the future.

    • and how do you know if it will be a reliable source for draining your spunk in the future?

  • Maybe I'm just arrogant, but no, a bj does not boost my ego or enhance my confidence. They're already inflated enough.
    by the way what does make me squirm is the girl playing the submissive role. That's mine. Best when she's topping me preferably face-sitting me while she does the business.

  • Yeah kind of did but I never get that anymore

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