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Does giving up sex easily make guys lose respect?

When I first met this guy he was very respectful and nice to me. We had sex on the first date but he was still nice and respectful to me. He gets sex from me pretty easy and when he wants sex I give it to him. He was still nice to me even though i had sex with him early but the easier I give it to him the less respectful he is. I enjoy having sex with him which is why i do it.

He suddenly has started treating me like a free prostitute and booty call. We only have sex and after we have it he is disrespectful. The only time he is nice is when he wants it but if I reject him he is also disrespectful. I've only rejected him once and he turned very mean about it. During sex now he calls me names like whore, tramp, slut, hoe, bitch. He did something to hurt my feelings and i told him to stop playing with my emotions. He says all I am is a girl who he is not in a relationship with, who he is just fucking so he doesn't feeling like he is doing that.

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  • Ah well, I'm sorry to tell you this but this guy is just using you for the sex. Even if he's respectful to you before the sex but completely disrespectful after the sex, he's just telling you what you want to hear so he can get inside you.

    I was talking to a girl earlier that is in almost the same situation, this guy comes to see her and it's nice to her the whole time he's there but once they're done having sex, later on when he's talking to her that day, he treats her badly. She has horrible depression and he doesn't care about a problems, and blames everything on her.

    But yeah, this guy is using you for sex. I'm not sure how much you like this guy, and you may go into denial and not believe this is what he's doing, but trust me, this is exactly what he is doing.

    Giving sex to the guy isn't what is making him lose respect for you. Because he never had respect for you in the first place or he wouldn't treat you like this. Sorry. I know this is kind of blunt but I hate to see people get hurt and I just want to give an honest opinion.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Looks like he did what he had to in order to get where he is currently in the "relationship".

    It may have been his plan all along. Some guys are like that, but, most won't take it for granted. I quite often don't push the envelope, because I want her to want me. She has to give me some signs, then it doesn't seem like that's all I want her for.

Most Helpful Girl

  • It makes it easier for the players to pump and dump you.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • are you okay? his intentions are pretty obvious…

  • It seems that you may want to find somebody new, who does not play psychological games with you and enjoys whatever activities you decide to engage in.

  • It sounds like he is using you for just sex. How is the sex with him? Does he get you to orgasm? What do you want out of the relationship?

    • Please, stop engaging in disturbing behavior by making sexually explicit inquiries regarding another person in an inappropriate manner. This type of conduct is not only morally reprehensible but also against the rules of normal behavior. I will take it upon myself to report you. So, if you wish to stay out of trouble, think twice before you speak.

    • @WilmaReportu Wilma... just trying to get info to make an honest reply... nothing more. sorry if it offended you.

  • You set a precedent with him I guess. Me in that situation, I just jacked off, occasionally, rather than constantly look to my SO or mate when she may or may not want sex. Guys have no sense of timing and it can become a drag on a relationship.

  • Yes it does

  • I don't lose respect for women who give me sex easily, but I will say that every time a woman has ever given it up easily, she didn't end up being interested in building a deeper relationship. She was only interested in casual fun.

    So basically, I wouldn't lose respect for her, but I would assume that she probably wasn't interested in something more.

  • Not at all

  • It’s time to get rid of this guy and find somebody else I love sex, but I would never treat anybody the way he treated you there’s nothing wrong with women, loving sex, wanting to enjoy the experience with the man there with Nor a man with a woman But both have to respect each other, and to want the same thing in a loving, caring relationship and I feel he is not doing that from what you had said

  • Yes, it most certainly does.

  • respect has jack to do with how fast you give up the booty more or less how easy you are to get along with, nobody wants a difficult person at least i don't, all my relationships it took about 1-2 datws before she gave it to me, thats about how long ill wait or im leaving

  • You should respect yourself if you don't how else do expect anyone else too

  • Some guys only want sex and no commitment. Making them wait a bit weeds out those only wanting sex as they won't wait.

  • Fucking the first night honestly makes me realize you give it up quick without much effort and it gave it away when she invited me over at like 1am

  • Drop that booty call or friend with benefits asap. Sounds like a douche. A man should treat a woman with respect whether he's having sex with her or not, period

  • No, we make that decision WAY earlier.
    I know if you are a slut even if you wait 1 month for sex.
    I know you are a keeper even if you blow me on 1st date.

  • Yes pretty much. Because you don’t have standards when it comes to that. Even now you’re still letting him treat you like shit but you’re giving up the clam to him still. He knows he can treat you like shit but you’ll still come running. If a girl is willing to give it up just like that you start to wonder, ok how many other dudes has she done this w? Now she’s just for fun. Never really take them serious.

  • Seems like he is just using you for sex now, probably never wanted a relationship, most guys are not like that even when giving sex in the beginning, you need to tell him that you want a relationship

  • Society has programmed most people to forget what sex really is. Imagine that every time you had sex, you would end up with a family with that man. He would need to be suitable to be the father of your children and next generation. Now ask yourself whether this guy has shown any such signs of being that man...

    Thus, despite sex having been promoted as casual, that does not, and never will change that it is not. Therefore when ever you treat it as such, the guy will reflect on this.

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