Most Helpful Guys

  • My name is anonymous,
    Here I will be talking about guys who actually care about women, and not guys who fear commitment and only care about sex. This is my opinion and may not apply to every guy, as every person thinks differently, this is what I have come to with the way I think. Some guys will take up casual sex seriously, some guys may just take it and not care, some guys may want more sex, and some guys could acknowledge that it's nothing serious and just try to keep the friend relationship, a friend relationship and nothing more. It depends on how we view it, that determines whether it's casual sex and we're just friends, or if something mind blowing just happened and somehow were on the other side of the wall... Automatically, the wall is whether we treat you the same or somehow we treat you differently, almost not by choice.

    If you are talking about friends, multiple guy freinds involved, it could be competitive and ugly. Even if we know it's casual, but then another guy does the same with you, we know deep down something's different about the relationship. And if another guy has you, and we're falling for you, this is where it gets ugly, or where it gets quiet. Even if we're friends, we care about our friends, and now you're adding something to the fire... Sharing more between each other. Something more personal, that isn't everywhere. Touch our hearts by going there, and automatically something changes... In our minds then, especially as a friend that we care about,
    If it's real, you are mine, if it's just for fun, free sex between freinds freely being able to do this for an activity, it still changes, you are possibly more of mine than you were yesterday. if it's fake and you aren't going to take the relationship any farther, only sex here and there; we might just take it as pleasure, and be frustrated that you won't go farther.

    Yes, It brings two people together in the sense that you share your lives in a whole different way that you don't with others... So long as it's only with that person, and not having casual sex with fifty others for your own pleasure; that would void the bond that it brings in your eyes. Keeping it real like this will or could, leave the guy protective or competitive to keep other guys from having you. Because you are his, not anyone else's. While same is for you, he is yours. IF you are a team, say he wants to build a car, and then you want to travel across to London. Whatever it may be, work together. BestIntamacyEver

  • Yes. It changes things pretty dramatically. The emotional stakes become exponentially higher.

Most Helpful Girls

  • it can bring you guys closer, give you something else to do when you're bored and alone, give you something to talk about.
    can spice it up a little if you tease him throughout the day.
    OR it can backfire if you do it too soon and kind of spoil things a little. depends on the relationship

  • Brings your feelings for them to a whole new level. Deeper in that, once you've seen each other naked and gotten physical it'll feel great to have been seen at literally your barest, and still feel loved and wanted.

  • Yep, it sure does.
    More serious, more connected, more everything.

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  • I would assume it makes everything a lot different from then on

  • It didn't change mine

    • Didn't it make you feel closer?

    • Well yes but I mean it didn't change the dynamic or anything. Sure I felt more intimate with him but like there was no awkwardness and no big thing happened... if that makes sense @TheEmma

    • Yeah, got it :)

  • Yes, it brings you together.

  • it brings each other closer i guess

  • If you both decided to have sex for all the right reasons, then the only change you'd notice is more bonding and intimacy.

  • Obviously, sex is quite a big part of a relationship. It may make or break the relationship.

  • Nope , sometimes it does while other times it doesn't it only depends

  • In theory should bring the couple closer, the next step physical snd emotional connection.

  • It does! The dynamic changes because of the spiritual elements of sex are now introduced.

    This change can be either for the better or for the worse. Most volatile and dramatic relationships are so, because sex was involved and it ruined things. Celibate relationships don't have that much drama!

    Hopefully your relationship will transcend to another awesome level now that sex is (or soon will be) involved. :-D

  • BABIES AND TOGETHERNESS.

  • Yeah it can for the right reasons. It can bring each other closer via the bond and intimacy and it's usually a defining factor of the relationship via sexual compatibility.

  • Its destroyed a few of mine and made a few better.

  • It brings you closer

  • It brings closeness into a relationship so. :).

  • Honestly for me it didn't change anything. We would fuck around and then go on dates. His behavior and attitude didn't change towards me. It made us closer and more comfortable with one another.

  • wouldn't know im a virgin

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