Does having sex hurt?

[Anonymous]

Does having sex hurt after being celibate for 4 years?

[Black_Ivory]

If both persons are virgins then I would say yes for both.

I lost my male v card at 12 years old. She did not seem to be a virgin in my memories because it did not hurt me.

I had a ton of of sex from 12 years old until I got engaged at 34 years old.

The first virgin I ever had sex with was my wife on her wedding night. I can honestly say that I do not like having sex with a virgin.

The first night I could not even get my dragon all the way inside her. It was just too tight. It took a full three days before I could go balls deep inside her.

The first night was a miracle that I was able to orgasm since I could not get in all the way. Plus my little soldier's helmet was chaffed/damaged from trying to enter.

I realized I am like a cowboy. I like my horses broken in. I do not want to be the first rider if I can help it. (No offense ladies, this is just an analogy. Do not take it personally!)

I realized that if my wife ever left, I never want to do it with a virgin again. Too much drama and pain.

But after that first time. Sex is awesome and I want it as much as I breathe.

It only hurts the first day, but every day you keep at it gets better and better.

[oddwaffle]

Maybe but it's more likely stinky and absolutely boring.

Sex is like a dance or a sport. If you don't practice often you will be boring at best and suck at worst. There would be a million things you do wrong and turn the other person off.

I was with this girl who didn't have sex for a year. She didn't know that she stinks. She was unshaven down there and didn't wash it carefully. She couldn't do anything and just lay there like a star fish.

[Asker]

Okay... I definitely don't smell and down there is very much shaved... this girl you're talking about probably didn't even care.

[Anonymous]

Only if you are nervous, but it shouldn’t hurt.

[Reece12345]

I wouldn't think so, unless the partner is too rough.

[Summeroflove]

Well could. Get married first

[Asker]

Definitely plan on getting married first.

[Summeroflove]

That’s great to hear. It might but I would just talk with your husband about things and see how you’re both comfortable

[Asker]

I will

[Summeroflove]

Okay wish you the best

[Dargil]

Sounding like an engineer, your vagina has an elastic memory. If you stay active, there is rarely any discomfort, even if you have an upgrade. Your vagina anticipates the visit. But if you go inactive for months, those first few times may be a squeeze util you get used to it.

[tfan1]

If you are having difficulty getting wet, use aloe Vera straight from the plant. My wife’s gynecologist recommended it. It’s natural and you shouldn’t have any allergies to it. Just squeeze some on your vulva and on his erect penis and he will slide into your vagina with No difficulty. 🙂👍

[Pterodon]

It might

[In_Trance]

Have you watched vanilla porn?
Doesn't look like it hurts, does it?

[Asker]

I don't know what you're talking about but okay.

[Anonymous]

I recently been with 2 girls who had not been sexually active for more than 2 years.

1st : It was her 2nd time having sex, the 1st time being 5 years ago. She bled a bit as I inserted into her and she said it was painful when I inserted into her. She said it was more painful than her first time. After it was over it hurt for a few days.

2nd : She hadn't had it for 2 years, her last was her late husband and she's also a mom of 3 kids, she was quite nervous but was ready to have sex again, she said it hurt a bit as I inserted into her and she was sore after it was over but she liked the feel.