Guys, does having sex with the same woman get boring?

Does the same old, same old ever get boring or less desirable after awhile?
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  • Nope, not at all.

    In fact, I believe that it gets better with time.

    Having sex with the same woman for an extended period of time allows you to get more comfortable with each other. You become less inhibited, and more in tune with each other.

    You begin to learn, and anticipate, what she likes. She does the same, and the sex gets better. I know how to make my girl orgasm even better now than I did in the beginning, because I recognize her cues, and she recognizes mine.

    As you get more confortable, you get more open about trying new things with that person. She has explored things with me that she's never brought up with another guy, and our sex life is even more intense because of it.

    • What if she had already done those things with other men? How would you feel about that?

    • Well, as in my example, she hasn't. However, if it was some other aspect of sex that she's done with another guy, it doesn't affect our sex life, in the least. I don't think about, nor fixate on her previous relationships. It doesn't make ours any better, or worse.

    • This guy speaks the truth

  • A lot of guys here are trying to be noble, but the fact is that men are biologically programmed to desire VARIATION. Monogamy isn't the natural state for humans. Yes, porn and other substitutes can help satiate that desire for variation, but there will always be at least a desire there, even if it isn't acted upon.

    Certainly, having a healthy and loving relationship with the woman makes it much, much easier, as does a high level of compatibility, but the desire for other women will never go away completely for most men.

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  • It can, but only if you don't spice things up every once in a while. Role play, surprise stripteases, doing something crazy like in a place you might get caught. I'd rather have spiced up sex with one woman than do the same thing over and over to lots of women. Boring sex is more about doing the same thing rather than the same person.

    • Well, I mean you've seen her body plenty of times. It's not new anymore. You've 'felt' her body dozens of times so there's no surprises. Role playing doesn't do much other than cover her up in a costume and pretend she's someone else..

    • You are looking at it as only the same bodies together. Despite the same bodies the experience can be altered. Location, impromtuness, position, how you caress each others bodies, role play, etc. can change the experience. Plus, if he is with the same body over and over again, it is because he LOVES it.

    • Still, would you want to eat the same thing every day? No, you want a variety. You can love more than one thing or person. Yet, people tie themselves down to one person and ignore their attraction to other people because it's human tradition.

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  • just be willing to try new things. Doesn't have to be crazy and sometimes it just won't work out but its good to spice things up from time to time.

  • No way haha
    If anything, with time it will get better. When you try new things, learn what makes each other tick and the overall satisfaction that will bring... if anything it will get more interesting as opposed to boring, but only if you work at it, as with anything worth it in life.

  • hasn't for me yet. I'm still just as excited to have sex with my wife as the first time we did it

    • That's hard to believe.. But, if you say so.

    • i'm not asking you to believe me. seems absurd you'd question something you don't know a thing about. that's like someone saying i like when it's gray and dreary out and you saying, "I find that hard to believe" when you can put yourself in my shoes you can understand why i feel the way i do about things... in the mean time don't pretend to know something you know nothing about just as i won't pretend to know things about you that i know nothing about

    • Having the same meal every day for the rest of your life doesn't sound too exciting.. But by all means, forget the rest of the menu.

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  • Not if you love her.

  • It depends on her a lot. If she is adventurous and keeps it fresh, then sex can be better than with many different people. If she is a starfish, then it's going to get old fast

  • Almost the same thing can be said on woman in general, you don't change a winning horse.

  • Here's the thing. I don't like many people.

    In my life, I have had a crush on 3 women total.

    If I can find someone that I genuinely like then I'm not going to get bored.

    • Same here

  • Depends. If I have feelings for her, then no. If I don't, then most likely.

  • Only if she looks bored of it

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