Does he deserve a blowjob even if he doesn’t eat Pussy?

does he deserve a blowjob even if he doesn’t eat Pussy?
My answer: no it’s selfish and idc to pleasure someone selfish
Does he deserve a blowjob even if he doesn’t eat Pussy?
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  • I think this depends on whether or not the guy in question prefers blowjobs and whether or not the girl in question prefers cunnilingus. I personally find penetrative intercourse more rewarding and stimulating than oral sex performed on me, but I don't mind giving my guy a blowjob if he likes it, I just have him finger me while I'm going down on him and I really enjoy it. I don't think you should ever "expect" your partner to do one thing just because you do something that you feel is equivalent. For example, I imagine a pussy smells and tastes rather foul even on a good day with good hygiene, but letting a guy cum in your mouth is also pretty damn disgusting. You might then assume that these two things are pretty much "equal" to each other, but your partner might have a different perception of the acts in question than what you do. Besides, if he didn't ask for a blowjob and you just initiated it, then he didn't really ask you to do anything special for him... It's more like a gift that way than a loan, with you offering something instead of him asking for it with agreement to pay it back. If he asks you to blow him, though, then he should pretty much understand that it's only fair for you to get some of what you like, too. This, to me, is similar to asking, "Does he deserve to have me ride him all night if he doesn't take the top seat and thrust for a while?" In other words, should the girl be on top more, less, or about as often as the guy, and why? Is one more physically taxing than the other? Does one feel better for one side than the other? I think it depends on preference of both sides, really.

    • Yes guys normally ask though I don’t give guys special BJ’s unless I like them and their like bae which rarely happens ever it’s only happened twice and I get you 💯 though

  • He may not 'deserve' it, but it depends on the partner. Some people like to give blow jobs and some don't like getting head. If HE decides that he doesn't want to give head, YOU can decide as well if you want to give him blowjobs or not. And he has to respect that opinion because he is expecting you to respect his own as well.

    • It's not about that in all cases can she fit in her mouth

    • @AsthmaFrog good point. do you like giving head or getting ur pussy eaten?

    • @jason222 I personally like both

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  • I think your view on sex is flawed.

    "deserves"? Do the flipside of it. If you give him a blowjob does he "owe" you a clit lick? If he eats your pussy and you don't give him a blowjob after. Is he right to tell you that you owe him a blowjob, then tells you to suck his dick?

    Personally, when I do that for a girl it's without the expectation of a blowjob and I don't feel cheated. Now if you want to say that you've asked for it more than once and he always refuses, then that's another subject. But the idea he needs to eat you out to somehow earn or "deserve" a blowjob is silly.

    • I said if he doesn’t eat pussy it means what it means the person doesn’t. I 💯 think a man who wants his dick sucked but doesn’t give anything in return doesn’t deserve it and no I’m not somebody sex toy to really only give a fuck if they felt good

    • Do you do anal for him?

    • I agree with you. However, I'll still answer "no" because people are too selfish. It's so terrible to say "people should be taught a lesson" but as a selfless person who's kind of a pushover, I have to make myself be colder than I really am or I'll be walked all over

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  • This made me recall the opening line to "Oh Sheila"

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wbL2lMn34Oo



    "Like I always say, what's good for the goose is always good for the gander."

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  • Great question. "And that's all I have to say about that."

  • Hell no he don't deserve a be or even pussycat. Any man that want eat pussycat. Even if he don't get a be is crazy as hell. Eating pussycat the right way is the way 2 a woman heart.

    • Just like cooking is for most men. Eating her out if our way of keeping her around hahhah

  • That sure is my motto! Nothing between these legs going to hurt you.

  • I'd leave him lol

  • I agree give and take don't expect something that you yourself can't do. If you ask for it you should be able to do the same or similar to.

  • No glove no love. Oh wait sorry that’s the wrong slogan. No vajayjay. No BJ.

    • Wrap your before chimney before you cum in me that's what she said

  • Simple. Hell no

  • I dont think so, if your giving someone oral then it's basically a gift and when you give a gift you usually aren't getting one in return.

    • We all can see it differently lol I guess if you wanna give head without anything in return ever than that’s fine :)

    • I've never had this problem if I want oral I ask for it

    • This isn’t one of those scenarios I met people who flat out refuse it like they do not want to give oral but want it

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  • Nah.

  • Nope, you have to give to receive. I don't like sex with selfish people

    • Well after you see a 11 inch hung dick you might change your mind

    • I agree like no lmao no guy is ever gonna be that special 😂

    • And no tf we won’t you watch too much porn if you think a big dick is enough and you’re probably bad at sex as well if you think size is really that special and important -,-

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  • No, sex needs to be mutual.

  • Here's the thing… what is done during sex is freely given by whomever gives it! If a partner gives it because he owes it or he want you to hold him, he's an asshole! Pretty simple.

    • Expecting someone to pleasure you and not even wanting to give in return makes you selfish. i could not be with someone who truly thinks sex is all about them and as long as they felt good everything’s good. If they can’t even consider you why would you want to have sex with someone like that? Nobody wants to be there solely for someone else’s pleasure sex if for the both of you people aren’t sex dolls. You don’t get to use people like that and think it’s fine.

  • Deserve? That's up to you. If receiving oral is important to you he may not be the right guy.

  • i won't say no to one, but i'll only eat some women out.

  • Why not? I don't do things for my partner just because I expect something in return. I do it because I love them.

    • But do they love you? Don’t you think you deserve to be loved back in the same way I hope you truly don’t want to be the one to pleasure all the time like it really does legitimately mean they aren’t considering you.. we all deserve more than that

    • Also I get if you enjoy it and don’t mind but either ways I mean like wouldn’t you just prefer someone who would at least ask because they care enough about making you feel good too?

    • In my experience, most guys don't really worry about my enjoyment. I get that they should, and yeah for the most part it does show they care about you too, but I've learned to accept it I guess.

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  • It depends on the circumstance. Getty it done to me isn't very important to me. I'm more of a giver

  • 1. I entirely agree without exception.
    2. He should do it well in advance of your blowing him, not expecting anything in return. You will learn more about a guy's heart from a session of cunnilingus than from an hour of conversation.

  • This is what my Heart says, as well. I cannot receive Oral, if I cannot give in return.

  • I suck his dick cause I like it. Not because I want my pussy licked. If he wanted to do that then he can, I’m never begging to get oral, it’s not fun when the person is forced

    • It’s not fun when the other person doesn’t even care about you pleasure enough, why should you have to be the one to care about them more? When they really don’t care about you do get what I mean?

    • It’s not fun for who? I suck dick because it’s fun for me and I like it. I like it more than getting oral.

    • That’s good for you than you continue and go for men who are gonna just get that oral from you and not think about you :) everyone has different taste !

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  • 90% or so get it wrong anyway (or I always meet the 'wrong' girls?).
    I'll eat anyway and wait for what is offered to myself.

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