Does he hate me for giving him blue balls?

[Anonymous]

Im a virgin. I recently meet a guy like 3 times i was really into him. problem was he was leaving to another country. Last night I went there to say goodbye. We drink then talked then one thing let to another. he got really horney at that time and me too. Couldn't control myself. Said to him repeatedIy we can't go all the way with you. But i was really into it. I said stop he kept on going. Making me crazy horny more. I told him Im virgin. He stoped for while and started again.. it was really close to loosing my v. But i ask him again that we can't go all the way.. suddenly he stopped and sitted back. He was like angry but trying to control him self. I said I'm sorrry. He said few sarcasem. Talking about other girl he gonna meet tomorrow Being mean. Wanted me too leave Made me really sad. It wasn't intentional. I really want it too. he kissed me goodbye. I don't know... does he hate me? Am I a biggest turn off right now?

[AustinMan]

Hate is too strong a word. I'm sure you can understand why he'd be extremely frustrated.

[Asker]

Is it a complete turn off?

[AustinMan]

No but it's certainly not an endearing quality. May I ask: why are you so reluctant to have sex with him when it seems clear you two are so into each other?

[Asker]

I really wanted to. But he was moving to another country like 2 days later. Might never see him again. I thought I could get emotionally damaged if I lose my v in one night stand. Still want to have sex with him really bad. Rarly happens to me to be this way. Most of the time I'm numb.

[AustinMan]

That's very interesting. Where are you and where is he going?

[LadyTerror]

He sounds like an ass. He shouldn't be going further if you said stop and it's not your job to get him off.

[Asker]

Wasn't rape or anything.. I was enjoying as f... but deep down I knew this is not right

[LadyTerror]

I never said it was rape. But he shouldn't be pressuring you if you said no once.

[NJ_Casanova]

I would be frustrated if she didn't want to at least go down on each other/HJs.

[ScottieO]

He's more in the wrong here than you are, you were pretty consistent that you didn't want to go all the way, you said it multiple times. If he has a problem with it, it's his problem. You're totally fine.

[Anonymous]

This is a big red flag that he's a jerk. A good guy would've found a way besides sex to make you both satisfied and been cool about it.