Does he like me?

[Anonymous]

So there’s a guy I know who I’m not sure likes me or not. He’s my crush, and we aren’t really friends to the point we’d hang out, but we do things at school together every day and talk. I just had a very dirty convo with him over text and I don’t know what it means. It started with us asking each other dirty questions about the opposite gender, then it turned into truth or dare. He asked me when the last time I was horny was, and I said right now, and he agreed and said he just asked that to make sure he wasn’t the only one. So I dared him to “relieve” himself cause he was horny. He asked me if I was gonna do it too so I did. He asked me to send a video of me doing it, but then apologized right away cause he’s just so horny. He asked me if we should tell each other when we finish, and then he told me when he did. Is it normal for people on this friendship level (not that much) to be doing this? Does this mean he likes me? He said that he trusts me and was telling me some pretty deep stuff. What does this all mean? Ahhhhh!

[summiter]

It is way normal you both are young and horny teens. As you know 99.9% of young guys his age jerk off frequently although they will never admit it. Keep the communication open with him, be honest as to what you both want (always use a condom, if it comes to that) do you want to take things to another level with him?

[Asker]

Yes, I do. But I’m scared that that meant nothing and he just got horny and didn’t mean anything.

[summiter]

Of course he is horny all teen guys are 24/7. That said, take it slow on your pace not his and see where it goes. Have you fooled around with him at all... i. e. getting naked,,,, fingering, touching , handjobs etc?

[Asker]

Nothing like that at all. This kinda happened out of nowhere.

[summiter]

Then take it slow get to know each other better... understand that he has raging hormones that are hard to control at his age. Keep the communication open and see where it goes. You don;t have to jump into sex, you both can have fun being naked and giving each other great orgasms without actual intercourse... see where it goes. Do not do anything that you are not emotionally or physically ready for... he is a young normal horny guy but he will survive!!! Thoughts?

[Asker]

Thanks so much! But I’m still scared that he doesn’t actually like me, or is attracted to me at all. He said, “yeah I don't know why but I am super horny right now, probably cause we talked about all this stuff”. Does that sound true, or like specifically I have something to do with him being horny and he’s covering up? Lol

[summiter]

Of course he is super horny and jerking off several times a day (sorry about the tmi) Just tell him what your current comfort levels are and go from there... he will have to respect it. If you get to the point... not sure how old both of you are but guys love handjobs if you are up to it. Get him to show you how he does it... guys are experts with their penises! Sorry about the tmi...

[Asker]

Thank you... but that didn’t really answer my question...

[summiter]

Try again... I'm sure he likes you and hopefully for more then sex. Bf/gf are great at your age with or without sex.

[Asker]

Thanks!

[summiter]

Hang in there... I know you will never do it, but feel free to ask me any questions. I am probably 10 years older then you which sound old but it is not, but i t feels like yesterday when I went through the same issues. You will always get a completely honest answer from me with no BS and no I'm not on this web page to troll or hook up. I have a fantastic sex life at the moment but am happy to pass on my past issues, successes/challenges/failures. Hang in there!!! by the way my real name is Ian.

[Asker]

Oh I thought you were a bot lol. But do you think he was horny because of what he were talking about, or if it had something to do with me?

[summiter]

A bit of both... talking about sex will give a teen guy an instant boner. But I'm sure he cares about you also. You have not said what you want out of all of this... do you like him... do you want him to be a boyfriend or just a friend. do you want to fool around a little with him? All are normal!

[Asker]

Well I mean, he’s my crush so of course I’ve fantasized about literally marrying him so...😂.

[Avicenna]

Well, I don't know how much he likes you, but he definitely wants to have sex with you.

[Asker]

But I’m not sure if he even wants sex! I don’t know if he was turned on by me, or what we were talking about.

[Avicenna]

Well, you should assume he does (and I'm sure he does)

[InternetGuy]

This is some weird shit.

[Asker]

Why? Lmao