Does he no longer enjoy the sex or why does he do this?

This was a while ago when I reconnected with someone, there were a few times we were having sex… and then he will pulled out to start masturbating infront of me sayin he really wants to cum.
0 1

Superb Opinion

  • Without penetration this is what lesbian relationships are like. I had a lesbian complain about the same thing to me before and eventually left. The same will probably happen to purple you. your man might have issues because fat guys tend to suffer from a micro penis and fat chicks need a bigger dong to service the place she hides her thong. If an overweight woman wears a string bikini and you can't see it because of her weight is she still wearing it? Lady there's your problem your fat and don't wear perfume and makeup. It's also great that he hasn't gone down because that's how HPV is spread around. I wish someone told me that while growing up so I didn't risk turning into Valk Kilmer one day.

    • Your wrong about both assumptions you have here about my situation, thanks for spreading your bad exp to others and projecting it here though.

    • Lmao, I'm just kidding with you, baby girl. You might need to and sexually stimulate him some more. Or maybe he has porn induced erectile dysfunction.

    • I wish the best for you.

Most Helpful Guy

  • mmmm reconnecting with someone... never a good idea. onc you have closed a door never go back.

    it sounds like he is treating you like a cheap whore and disrespecting you. also sounds like he's not that into you if he has to do that, i would have just kept pumping until done

    • Yeah I’m surprised.. like we would be having sex for a while and then he will pulled out saying that … or if he exhaust me… he will start doing that and of course I’ll help him.. so I just don’t get it..

    • well having never done this myself, i dont know either. however i do now from experience that my ex's are ex's for a reason. doesn't matter who ended the relationship it was ended for a reason and over time the brain forgets the bad parts and just remembers the good and thats why we fall for going back to them. however after shutting enough doors you learn not to reopen them again. i guess though the question is do you mind him doing this? if so i wouldn't stand for it and i would let him know. if however you are ok with this then thats your decision

    • Great questions… well idk… we ended for same reasons that he’s not ready for a relationship due to him not having time and dedication (he has a lot of issues such as mom passing away and such). But I don't know if I’ll ever talk about it again with him since we ended. We weren’t official but we were getting close to being official a year ago while he was waiting for me to be ready to say yes but he suddenly backed off sayin he’s not ready to fully commit… due to those reasons. But Um idk… Im not used to it… I guess I don’t like seeing it happen a lot cuz it’s kinda weird for me making me feel like maybe he don’t enjoy our sex like before? We used to have crazy wild sex before when we were dating.. so when we reconnected, I don't know what’s really up … sighs. But it does kinda put me down.. and I’m trying to get over him. Though I keep remembering small things that makes me insecure

    • Show All

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Girls & Guys Said

1 9
  • That’s no fun! If you guys aren’t using birth control he prob. Doesn’t want to get you prego

  • didn't you just ask him? i mean we can only guess it was something like not wanting to get you preggers or he has seen a lot of creampie porn lately... i mean he clearly likes a wank

    • If it was option b… he didn’t enjoy our sex? I did ask him, but he would only said he just really wanna cum…. And yeah I wasn’t on birth control

    • If you were not on birth control why would you be complaining that he pulled out. Like what?

    • Lol girl you don’t get the question. It’s not a complaint. It’s a concern he may not be enjoying the sex.

    • Show All
  • Or he didn't wanna finish inside u

  • He doesn’t want to get you pregnant

  • Was he afraid of getting you pregnant?

  • That's fucked up. I am assuming he is not interested.

    • Yeah I try asking him that.. but he only said it’s not that but he just wanna cum… so I don't know

    • Then why don't he fuck you. Or he just want to cum?

    • Yeah I’m surprised.. like we would be having sex for a while and then he will pulled out saying that … or if he exhaust me… he will start doing that and of course I’ll help him.. so I just don’t get it..

    • Show All
  • not sure he may be pullin out to avoid the pregnancy

  • He doesn't wanna cum inside you and get you pregnant, you dummy!!

  • It sounds like he's being very selfish if he didn't make you cum too.

  • doesn't want to make you pregnant or just wants to cum on your belly, boys like that