Does high body count make the man more desirable?

[Merimanr]

My body count is 0 and I would like the man I will lose my virginity have a very long sexual history. I am turned on when the man with high sexual numbers doesn't want to date a promiscuous woman. I don't know why though.

[normalice]

in general, people like others to know what they're doing. But when it comes to sex, it is usually the guy that gets to do all the 'work,' so it's usually much more important for the guy to know what he's doing. There's exceptions, of course, but overall this means an experienced guy is preferable.

[Merimanr]

is there anything that I can't do when having sex for the first time?

[normalice]

Well, I wouldn't recommend trying to take charge, unless he tells you how. Basically, assuming he's experienced, just follow his lead and go into 'absorb' mode. Let it happen, see where it leads.

[Merimanr]

it is still sexy that he commands

[normalice]

yeah, and the confidence to command usually only comes with experience. I get it.

[Anpu23]

I can explain, there is a belief that men are inherently dirty, women inherently clean. Therefore men having sex with a woman is cleansing for him, polluting for her. Hence slut shamming for women and virgin shaming for men. Same belief system different sides.

[WingGirl]

It counts as the main reason to not desire him. Men like that are the easiest to manipulate without ever putting out. Much more attractive when they have respect for their bodies as well as the women they sleep with by not being ridiculously careless.

[Boorene]

For me, it makes him less desirable. If he has slept with multiple women, it makes me feel as if he either has no self-control or a lack of respect for women.

[Merimanr]

Lack of respect for women? It is consensual lol

[Aguamarina]

It doesn't make him more desirable. If he has a high body count, he was desirable before he had a high body count.

[Shiba1490]

I don't want a man that sleeps with a lot of people.

[LunaJ]

nope cos then it means he's just jumping from one bed to another

[hellionthesagereborn]

That seems like something that will get you burned in the long run. Increased partner count means increased probability of cheating and divorce. If they have been fixated on the sex they where not fixated on the relationship and as such are not good at it and do not find it satisfying. But what ever floats your boat.

[HGG3805]

Body count?

[musicbrain5]

How many people they've slept with.

[Dude55]

Wouldn't know, I never tell any potential lover or partner how many people I've been with.

[Tony_1693]

My high count has always worked in my favor for the most part. Even virgin women are still attracted to me.

[Merimanr]

I have never met one virgin girl who said she wants a virgin guy. Only indian gagers appreciate male virginity. Lol :DDD

[DJB72]

The real question is whether you are comfortable with yourself.

Can you cope with the thought of knowing that he may be comparing you with every other person he's been with?

[Merimanr]

I would love to know he is comparing me with his sluts lol

[LunaJ]

ure slut 😂😂😂

[DJB72]

That's the point. I had 2 girlfriends before my wife and I regret that even now I compare them. It's inevitable. My wife had one before me, and she has openly told me there were things he did that I don't and vice versa. It's not a pleasant conversation.

[LunaJ]

maybe thatswhy people don't talk about exes? there's a reason why are they ex ;)

[Merimanr]

@LunaJ Ima virgin

[LunaJ]

calling a simple ex slut makes you a mental slut. that's all being virgin at age 30 might cause you some sexual problems

[Merimanr]

@LunaJ a simple ex? Who said anything about dating? calm down. I said I want to date a promiscuous man. Not the man who dated girls

[LunaJ]

lol gl getting some disease xD

[DJB72]

@LunaJ why should being a virgin at 30 be a problem? Society has forced these ideas into us for decades about how many is too many exes, the "best" age to have sex etc. Sex is never just physical, no matter how much you want to believe it. You will always be giving a piece of yourself to the other person. Waiting is not abnormal or unhealthy

[LunaJ]

being virgin = she didn't even have a relationship. that says something

[Merimanr]

@LunaJ I had a boyfriend

[CorrectingMyLife85]

I don't understand. You are searching for a good man; but you want someone who has been around the block?

I am this 32 year old virgin and I would just want someone who wants to be with me. To value and love me and wants to starts a family in time...

[DonkeyRick69]

For women it seems too.

[chloehatespeople]

I dont think so

[demonics]

Female own group preference. If this were FALSE married men, and men with gf's would find it pretty difficult to cheat, groupie-ism would be non-existent. Women desire what other women desire.

[jacquesvol]

Stephen Paddock is highly desirable, isn't he?

http://oi68.tinypic.com/m6hp0.jpg

[peachblossomluck]

Ughhhhhhh!

[peachblossomluck]

*facepalm

[Browneye57]

Ridiculous.
If you're gonna do a slut be sure they've been screened for STD's. Either gender.

[Danny_dan92]

I don't know, would it really get you wet? Ask yourself that question

[Artemisia8]

My body count is 999 and im pretty gay

[JSmuve]

That's kinda fucked up

[soul1112]

Well of course it does.
Sheep mentality at it's finest.

[TacosRAwesome]

I never thought about it in terms of body count but I'm awkward and wanted someone who is not so the kids are not fucked.

[Dale1982]

I've had quite a few woman In my life but even i say why the hell do you want to lose your virginity to a guy who's been round the block more times than a demented dog? Youd think youd want a virgin

[tallSteve69]

It means he knows how to make you SQUIRT 🍆💦skeet skeet

[Merimanr]

how tall are you?

[tallSteve69]

6’6”

[burpzzzzz]

Maybe it's because you hit the wall.

[Regular1]

Women are instinctively drawn to alpha males, and nothing screams "alpha" more than him having a high notch count. Men, on the other hand, are drawn to purity.

[Agent]

I prefer experienced girls.

[Annie_Mosity]

That explains why so many dudes watch Little House on the Prairie and not all those filthy whores on Pornhub... oh wait...

[Regular1]

@Annie_Mosity let me clarify. Men are drawn to purity in a potential mate. When we just want to drain a lizard, any whore will do.

[Annie_Mosity]

Ah yes, this is so smart... go for the one that gives the best impression to society and ignore your sexual desire for women that enjoy sex... I'm sure that doesn't cause sexual intimacy issues down the line... Have a wife that doesn't do it for you sexually, a sure fire way to remain faithful... oh wait...

[Regular1]

@Annie_Mosity It's common knowledge that you can't turn a ho into a housewife.

[Regular1]

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[Annie_Mosity]

So you'll settle for a life where you can't reconcile your sexual desires from the social pressure to appear 'pure'? Instead of addressing the issue whereby society oversexualises women than chastises them for enjoying sex you'd prefer to continue with the status quo of double standards and sham marriages? Smart... Real smart...

[Regular1]

@Annie_Mosity For some reason you think that a female who isn't already a whore can't have an enjoyable sex life?

[Annie_Mosity]

And you seem to think women who aren't virgins are whores.

[Merimanr]

@Annie_Mosity what is your problem gorl? You are trying to diminish purity and justifying female promiscuity by attacking him for his preferences? Why do you care that some men love female purity? Does that make you feel like worthless shit?

[Annie_Mosity]

fuck no, I don't want to fuck some dude who has sexual hangups about numbers. There's no freak in that geek... I'm calling him on his bullshit. Men fuck "slutty" women. Men cheat on their sweet girlfriends with promiscuous women... but please, tell me again how they really actually want pure nice girls? By the way, the worthless shit comment really missed the mark - you want another go at that passive aggressive bullshit sweetpea? And what's your deal GORL? You seem to be dealing with some superiority kink... you know you're just another conquest and not special if you're fucking the man-whore don't you? #delusional

[Regular1]

@Annie_Mosity Wow, Annie. I find it hard to believe that a sweet girl such as yourself hasn't been swept away by some dashing and debonair young man.

[Annie_Mosity]

I'm not a girl, I'm a grown woman who's been married for over ten years... I know that fucks up your idea that I have to be a single and bitter little bitch so I'm sorry to shit on your parade...

[Regular1]

@Annie_Mosity- Obviously you don't have to be single to be bitter.

[Annie_Mosity]

Why am I bitter? Because I disagree with your incorrect statement? If men were "drawn to purity" then Nunneries would be surrounded by horny men and the porn industry would be dead...

[Regular1]

@Annie_Mosity Bitter, angry, whatever. I'm just basing my opinion on the attitude you've shown in this thread.

[Annie_Mosity]

My attitude was opposition to your statement because your statement is false. I'll be happier about it for you... Oh boy oh boy! Gee... what a swell opinion Regular! Shucks... I just wish it weren't such doody. I think it's really great that you get the chance to share with us though, thanks so much for perpetuating false gender stereotypes! Is that a bit happier for you sweetness?

[Regular1]

@Annie_Mosity Sure thing, Sugar-tits.

[Annie_Mosity]

As long as you're happy... that's the main thing...

[Merimanr]

@Annie_Mosity listen gorl or gorilla you attacked him because he has standards. Why would a woman with low body count attack a man for not wanting a woman with high number?

[Merimanr]

@Annie_Mosity look many porn videos have the title of innocent. by the way porn is for purely sexual pleasure not for dating Men who want to fuck sluts and marry good girls don't really want to make their be their fuck buddy and nothing else

[maturedlibra]

Yes body counts very much

[disgustingweebtrash]

yes..

[sofaking]

wouldn't experience be more desirable? body count just raises your urgency to get tested, and if someone brings up their body count i'd assume 9/10 times the dudes flexing.

[CT_CD]

Yes.

[Pretty_Bwoy]

Most Guy's wit high body counts are usually players / cheater's. So basically u lookin for a fuck boy to take ur virginity. I really hope u don't get a STD the first time u experience sex

[weaverman]

He will teach you to enjoy sex

[Merimanr]

sounds hot

[weaverman]

Sex is fun never do anything sexual u dont want to do xx

[explorer87]

It is fun either way but it depends how long you want the relationship to last. In my limited experience if you’re not particularly good they’ll go looking for someone else who is. I always go into a situation with my eyes open so if it turns into just a hookup I’m not hurt.

[weaverman]

What is good explorer

[explorer87]

I’ve just been told a couple times that I’m too inexperienced for the guy to want to see me again. I equated that to mean I wasn’t “good enough”.

[weaverman]

Dont think that I bet your a sexy girl he prob lazy xx

[captanmarcos1]

You body is very sexy

[captanmarcos1]

Can you sending dm

[Anonymous]

Normally no

[Anonymous]

Generally speaking, women base a man's worth on how other women see him. If he has lots of female interest he is more valuable than a male with little to no female interest.
A guy who is normal looking but has been with lots of women, shows he is desirable to women and therefore other women don't need to "validate" him because other women have done it for her.
But a hot guy who women don't want to around give off a creepy vibe because they wonder why other women don't want him.

[Merimanr]

I agree.

[Anonymous]

Did you kill someone? Body count? What

[WingGirl]

😂😂😂

[Merimanr]

I didn't. I am a virgin lol

[Anonymous]

So, you're a hypocrite then, yeah, that's quality woman right there, eh?

[Annie_Mosity]

How is she a hypocrite? She's saying she finds something attractive. She isn't slut shaming the dude then saying it turns her on. I don't agree with her but you need a dictionary sweetpea.

[Opinion Owner]

Is stephen paddock desirable then?

[Annie_Mosity]

What does that even mean? What does Steven have to do with this?

[Opinion Owner]

@jacquesvol. answer

[Annie_Mosity]

That's a photo not an explanation of your remark. I know who he is, what does he have to do with your statement?

[Opinion Owner]

Think about it

[Annie_Mosity]

I am, I'm thinking you don't have a point so instead you're just talking bullshit instead of stating what you meant.

[Anonymous]

Do what you did the first 74 times -nail the get and put it behind you.

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry I meant "nail the guy and put it behind you"

[Merimanr]

still doesn't make sense lol

[Opinion Owner]

F#ck'm like you f#cked the first 125 guys.

[Anonymous]

Nope. He's desirable, if he's desirable.