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Does it bother you that your partner watches porn?

So my new girlfriend is very uptight. She is very sweet but when it comes to sex she is boring. No toys, no different positions never makes the first move on me etc. The big issue she has is me watching porn, she told me that I am not to watch it because it makes her feel bad. I don’t watch it everyday but I do enjoy it and asked her did she want to watch it with me. She was pissed at that and stormed off. My ex was super kinky and probably watched more porn than me, we used to watch it together and we’d honestly just joke around with it. This new girl is sweet but her lack of sexual experience is a huge deal breaker.
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  • I think you are asking not so much on watching porn, but rather on her sexuality and sexual curiosity? As a guy I think it is part of your job to open up the girl, and lead her into the world of sexual experiences. Sometimes the girl will resist, either playfully or seriously. If she is serious in resisting these new sexual experiences, you have to make a choice, either be stronger in leading her, stop leading her and accept the way things are, or leave her. Since you mentioned it is a huge deal breaker, I assume that the option of accepting the way things are is not for you. That means either you find some ways to make her accept new sexual experiences, or leave her. Before you decide, I suggest you think hard about how serious you are with her, and do you see a future with her or see this relationship as a short term one. If you are dead serious about her, then go ahead and make her accept new sexual experiences, be more forceful in your approach if necessary. If you are not serious about her, then it is for her and your good that you do not change her. The last thing you want is to change the girl about her view on sexuality, then dump her. Either way, proceed with caution.

  • It doesn’t bother me if she watched porn, but only if she’s getting off to random porn videos each time. If she’s getting off everyday to a particular pornstar that has a bigger dick than me and looked better than me, it’s going to make me a bit insecure lol.

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  • It doesn’t bother me as long as it doesn’t encroach on our relationship... like he’s choosing porn over having sex with me all the time. Totally get wanting to rub one out when I’m not around or have said I’m not in the mood

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  • My past girlfriend never did

  • My partner watches with me. It's normal as well as exciting and sensual.

  • Nope

  • She enjoys it I usually watch with her...

  • I’m same boat as you. I’m super into trying new things and kinky and my SO isn’t.

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