Does it even make sense when some guys preach about how all girls should be virgins?

[Anonymous]

Those are the types that different girls into two categories; the ones you only have fun with and the ones you form a family with.

I see something wrong with ''all girls should be virgins and wait till marriage'' statement I once caught a man saying. If that were to happen, that means men would be virgins too. There wouldn't be two categories anymore... no more hook-ups. That means everyone would be waiting till marriage.

So does do they even make sense about saying all girls should be virgins?

[hobbledehoy]

Depends on their motives and what drives that standard. It could be spiritual, health based or usually prejudicial and driven by insecurities and jealousy. There's a good and bad side to that same request. Unfortunately it pools shit and decent people together almost supporting each other without truly knowing the other motive and assuming like mindedness because they agree on one moot point. In the end it shouldn't matter to a girl because if she cared about "those guys" she'd likely understand why and avoid sleeping with anyone but that person. I personally think those people are lucky or naive and more than one sexual relationship is not what determines a person morally good or not. Nor is virginity an assurance of purity or grace. And most men who want that dont deserve it anyway.

[Celtero]

You wemons sure are good at putting all men into one group.

[Asker]

I'm talking about those group of men (some... not all) that want to have fun but yet preach on how all girls should wait till marriage. That would mean no more fun sex for any guy if all girls waited.

[Celtero]

I don't think they say that... it's more of a "sluts are for fun, virgins are for marriage."

[hobbledehoy]

"you wemons" who would even reply to that lmao. Guy is trolling himself.

[Celtero]

@hobbledehoy It's good to learn to not take everything so seriously, my dude.

[MissDawn7961]

everyone should wait until they are on their honeymoon before they have sex for that is the way God wants it ! it is your own fault that you are a whore too ! no intelligent and respectable man would want to have sex with you for you will probably give him a sexually transmitted disease that you got from being a whore ! Virgins are this way for a reason which is because we are mature enough to control our bodies and not just have sex with anything human that comes our way , unlike you ! Thanks

[Asker]

Well I have no problems with having a normal relationship.

[hobbledehoy]

That's an assumption. It suits men not to raise a child not theirs unknowling. Honeymoon is actually a pagan tradition so is marriage. Churches of God were originally opposed to marriage. The night of the celebration drinking the mead and fking your bride.. Aka the moon of the honeywine... Is really your religious belief? You realize modern christianity is just a bastardised version created by the very enemies the romans posing ceasar as apollo and jses? Men came up with the chastity fetish and shame that surrounds allowing yourself be raped... And disowned. Your insults are just a product of that ridicule instilled over countless generations. I'm guessing you also support arranged marriages? Women's freedom is more important than your uneducated and unenlightened... quite bigoted... Opinion. Devoid of any fact. Your body may well seem a virgin but your mind is penetrated by men and pretty fkd tbh. Glhf

[CreativeMumble]

Let people have their own lives. If you want to wait until marriage, then do that. If you don't, then don't.

[Asker]

I'm talking about those group of men (some... not all) that want to have fun but yet preach on how all girls should wait till marriage. That would mean no more fun sex for any guy if all girls waited.

[CreativeMumble]

It's double standard really. As if it's required for a woman not to have had a life until they meet the man. We are humans like them and have a life. We are not clean slate that haven't experienced anything through our life. Expecting that is like saying they just want a doll.

[COMMODOREII]

Nope not at all.

[Anonymous]

Everyone should wait until marriage; and I back that up by waiting myself.