Does it matter if you are experienced non experienced in sex to have it?

[LaurenM1997]

It’s a thought that goes through my mind a lot and i was curious to know other people’s opinions

[Confucious900]

Everyone starting out on their sexual journey was at one point u non experienced and some with or without experience gave them a shot, and in time they improved. You only get to be more experienced with every time you have sex so no it doesn't matter, but i know for many people it matters. Where some guys don't really care if a girl is experienced, if you flip it, more woman would prefer a experienced guy over the guy who doesn't have much experience.

[LaurenM1997]

I actually prefer a guy with experience even though I’m not experienced

[Confucious900]

I rest my case. You want to be dominated and taken in the bedroom. But its funny because i've seen this 3 times, three separate times with guys I know. Sometimes the wildest animals reside in the guys that doesn't have much experience in the bedroom. They just want someone to open that cage.

[LaurenM1997]

Is it bad that I want that?

[Confucious900]

No not at all. You want what you want. Everyone has their preferences. We are all allowed to want what we want. I'm just pointing out the differences between guys and girls, where some guys don't really care if a girl has experience or not, most woman cares for this and would much prefer a guy with experience over the guy who doesn't have any.

[LaurenM1997]

Ok that’s good

[Berethor]

I am not interested in non-virgins, why I would want a girl that had bunch of dudes on her?

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Nature_Adores_a_Virgin

[LaurenM1997]

Why are you against it?

[Berethor]

Against what? being with a girl that was used by bunch of dudes, is it not obvious?

[LaurenM1997]

She’s not being used what if she had partners in the past? It doesn’t make it bad

[Berethor]

I don't want used goods, would you drink from a can that someone else drink from?

[LaurenM1997]

That’s got nothing to do with my question I posted

[LaurenM1997]

It’s not about being used either cause if you love someone and they love you correctly then they won’t use you

[Berethor]

Your question is not even clear, but I explained to you why I don't want a non-virgin.

[LaurenM1997]

Well people understand what I’m saying so it must be you who doesn’t understand md

[LaurenM1997]

*me..

[Berethor]

Her love don't worth much as she had left the guy, so she is likely to leave me as well.

[LaurenM1997]

Just give her a chance she will make it work

[Berethor]

I am not big believer in second chances, I prefer to start from a clean page, a virgin.

[LaurenM1997]

Ok then

[TommyMountainFigure]

@berethor I'm curious about something. If you were to go out on a first date with a girl, and get on extremely well with her. You have a great chemistry etc etc. Do you expect her to tell you there and then whether or not she's a virgin? AND if you do, she's going to ask you the same question. That leads me to think that view is likely to leave you always being single

[Berethor]

@TommyMountainFigure I rather be single than be with a ho. I prefer to know even before I date her, and yea it's not always easy to ask about it, but it's important to me.

[LaurenM1997]

Just cause people have lost their virginity’s doesn’t make them a hoe 🤦‍♀️

[LaurenM1997]

*ho 🤦‍♀️

[TommyMountainFigure]

@berethor I'm in agreement with @laurenm1997 here. How dare you call a woman a ho because she may have been in a relationship previously before she met you? So.. in effect you think once she is in a failed relationship, she should never be allowed to date? Because if everyone thought as you do, that would be the case. That is such a closed minded view, I only hope you don't look back in your 80's and realise you made a very bad error.

[Jennz6]

@laurenm1997 @berethor so you would never want me?

[Berethor]

@Jennz6 sorry, no, I only want a virgin, so your seduction is not going to work. :)

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I don't think it does no. I mean, when you date, it all depends on who you're trying to find. But honestly, if you're inexperienced you will learn to have sex and sexual activity as you and your partner go on. I've heard our bodies will naturally know what to do so I wouldn't worry too much. Just taking it slow and being careful the first few times is better. And signaling or telling your partner if anything hurts, causes discomfort, etc.

[IslaTheWitch]

It's better if at least one partner is experienced... but it's my opinion :D

[TommyMountainFigure]

Well the only way to gain experience with anything is to keep practising. So experienced or non experienced doesn't really matter to me!

[NathanDavis]

it shouldn't...

and, how else do you gain experience, lol

[TheSpectre]

Be inexperienced or experienced.
It does not matter. Only lust matters in the end.

[Dargil]

Easy for a girl. Yes is all you need. Guys have to understand the terrain and have some skill sets. Going in blind often fails.

[Tim2nice]

It doesn’t take rocket science to do the deed. It’s actually very easy. Just push a penis into the vagina

[LaurenM1997]

Ok it was just a question

[AmyHew1tt]

Apparently, it is rocket science to pleasure your partner though. It's not as simple as penis-in-vagina

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I don't mind that a girl is not experience, I believe all things in a sexual relationship or not sexual comes natural.

[LaurenM1997]

That’s true I agree with that

[laly520]

never mattered to me

[MasterKS]

@laly520 you mean experience of man doesn't make any difference to you?

[laly520]

@MasterKS yes n it doesn't matter at all I am a virgin with 0 experience engaged to a virgin with 0 experience perfect that way to me

[LaurenM1997]

I am still a virgin too

[TonyMetal___86]

@laurenm1997 and & @laly520 2 beautiful gems 😌

[LaurenM1997]

@TonyMetal___86 aww thank you 🙂❤️

[TonyMetal___86]

You're welcome 😌

[Goahead76]

Good for both of you. How rare to hear that in the age of hookup culture. For some reason it makes me think of the line from Willy Wonka, "So shines a good deed in a weary world".

[LaurenM1997]

@Goahead76 what’s that supposed to mean is it good or bad?

[Jennz6]

@laurenm1997 I’m not sure because I lost my virginity when I was 14 years old

[LaurenM1997]

@Jennz6 did you? ❤️

[Goahead76]

It's good, definitely.

[LaurenM1997]

@Goahead76 I’m glad 🙂

[exitseven]

It is not rocket science. After about five minutes in you will get the basics.

[bowenw]

It doesn't matter. Just have fun.

[LaurenM1997]

When the time is right I will thanks ☺️

[bowenw]

That is good. Best of luck to you.

[LaurenM1997]

Thanks

[CriticalCatDad123]

I'm not experienced in it at all but that's because I don't want to be. Personally I don't want to have sex with anyone. The act of sex disturbs me and hearing about it done by others makes me uncomfortable. To the point people just laugh.

[LaurenM1997]

Oh right yeah I see what you mean

[CriticalCatDad123]

Thank you, @LaurenM1997 🙂

[CriticalCatDad123]

I can hear the couple who lives in the apartment below mine having sex sometimes at night and it irritates me so much I have to either turn my fan on or put my headphones in. 😒

[LaurenM1997]

Oh goodness ugh I have the same with my neighbours

[CriticalCatDad123]

Its disgusting and honestly makes me mad hearing all the moaning...

[LaurenM1997]

Yeah my neighbours are loud too

[MysticDevice]

I don't think it matters. You can always gaim experience. What really matters is that you're compatible with your partner.

[Iron_Man]

It’s better to not be experienced it means you’re pure

[LaurenM1997]

Yeah I have no experience

[Iron_Man]

Great 👍

[LaurenM1997]

Thank you 🙂

[Iron_Man]

You’re very welcome

[Jennz6]

Doesn’t matter honey 💕💯

[Alex-Snow]

It makes no difference to me

[TonyMetal___86]

It doesn't matter at all, also would be better if she's a virgin!

[kellytheman]

It don’t really matter you just kinda go with the flow and try things that pleasure your partner and you. Also it don’t matter if your experience or not experienced the first time is not the best people like different things.

[Squatting_Slav]

Not at all, if you're with someone you're very comfortable with it's easygoing and falls naturally into place

[AngryCarl]

You have to start somewhere.

[nawtee_me]

Not at all it really is a learn as you go thing….

[JohnK123]

I don’t think so. I mean I’m a virgin so I’m hoping not. Sure some people might want someone experienced but they have to remember they were not experienced before lol

[Jennz6]

@laurenm1997 @johnk123 hi John, it’s been a long time 💃💯