Does it mean something to you (emotionally) when a girl swallows your cum?

My boyfriend and I have been having sexual relations for the past 4 months or so. In that time I've never swallowed his cum because I don't really want to. Yesterday he told me that I don't have to do it but it would mean something to him. He said it would feel like I was accepting all of him. Then he said it was stupid and not to worry about it. But is this true or was he just trying to get me to do it? If so, can you explain it a little more?
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  • Here's the deal with his. When a girl swallows my load, it is, by far, the most amazing feeling in the entire universe that I honestly cannot adequately put into words.

    The entire process works on a few different levels for us:

    1) your mouth is warm, this is 50%. The feeling of being inside your mouth is like a vagina only better because your mouth has more movement.

    2) when we blow our load, there is a moment, it lasts all of maybe 5 seconds in which we are at 100% your mercy in every way possible, for some that's a turn on, for women that is too.

    3) when we blow our load in your warm mouth, we have a moment of primal instinct in which we feel we own you, your our property, we dominate and consume you and you will do as you are told. This literally lasts like 3-5 seconds and then we are helpless to you. Rather ironic no?

    4) lastly, when you make noises and enjoy it audibly, wee get harder in your mouth. Even if you don't enjoy it, it would make a huge impact that you will feel deep in your throat.

    The crux of the matter is, when a man finds a woman that can give him a blowjob that turns an atheist into the pope, than the last thing you will ever have to worry about is cheating, abuse or neglecting you. Your mouth is amazing with our cock in it, we know it and when we find the perfect blowjob queen, she's our princess.

    Him saying that it will bring you closer emotionally, yea that's a lie he just wanted to blow him load in your mouth.

    • i don't really agree with this response

  • Semen is not like anything else that normally leaves a man's body. It's only purpose is to find a new home in a woman's body.

    In the course of normal sexual relations, it is a man's ejaculation that can bring about a pregnancy. Understandably then, men find ejaculating into a woman's vagina to be immensely gratifying. Similarly, women often report that having their man ejaculate into their vagina is also immensely gratifying to them as well.

    While it is true that there is a substantial physiological difference between receiving a man's ejaculated semen in your mouth versus in your vagina, from the man's psychological standpoint there is no difference at all.

    Furthermore, having accepted his ejaculate into your mouth only to then spit it out is a physical manifestation of rejection of your man at a fundemental level. Semen is not waste. It is identity. To accept his semen is to accept him.

    • I'm having a difficult time understanding where the manipulation is here. If a guy says: "I would like to have you swallow because I really get off on the idea of it." Or "I would like to have you swallow because I really feel emotionally fulfilled by you doing it." It seems to me, that both of these statements should carry equal weight. I want sexual fulfillment from my partner, and I want emotional fulfillment from my partner. I believe she should give the same consideration in either case. Ultimately, each person must decide for themselves what sexual practices they will engage in. Are you saying that simply because the second statement is presented in terms of emotional needs, that that reason alone makes the case for manipulation? If so, then I find that disheartening too. The idea that my sexual requests get some sort of second class status in the relationship while the emotional stuff comes first strikes me arbitrary, wrongheaded and just a bit thoughtless.

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  • Listen from the very first time I gave my boyfriend a blowjob I wanted him to cum in my mouth and to swallow because I deeply find it emotional and spiritual and it didn't happen the first I don't know 20/30 times we did it because he was use to cumming under pretty controlled circumstances and we just couldn't make it happen. It finally happened and it was even more fulfilling than I suspected.

    We're too young for kids and haven't breached intercourse yet but we both know that going to be a condom affair because even on the pill its too risky for two people who don't have a stable source of income. So it maybe a very long time until we can experience him cumming in my vagina. Which is sad because its super intimate. So having him cum in my mouth and swallowing is very near proximity yet much much safer.
    I literally feel so close to him afterword because his whole DNA set is in me. which is odd but very comforting.
    Ultimately its super personal and as a woman don't feel pressured to do it if you aren't comfortable. But he is most certainly being honest.

    • That’s really awesome. He’s a lucky man.

    • I’d love to Cum in you sloppy seconds

  • Sex can create emotional bonding between two people if they focus on that aspect of it. I'd say that swallowing probably creates the same type of bond between people that you feel when you go farther or try something new with a partner sexually. Sex causes a rush of hormone production in the body that explains these type of feelings. It's an acceptance thing and to some degree an ego thing. It probably makes him feel more attached to you.

    • I agree with this, minus the ego thing. Cum is the product of pure ecstasy and is also the building blocks for creating life. There's something sacred about it. Put it the other way, I love the idea of a girl being able to squirt, and having her cum into my mouth and I swallow it. It feels so intimate and bonding. Like its so wrong, but I want your fluids in my mouth. Also, kissing is very intimate, and there's something about the mouth that is absolutely tantalizing. When you eat food and there is just something that you love, and you look forward to eating it, and you find great pleasure and contentment in it. Then when you take kissing--- sharing your saliva in a deep kiss is somewhat on par with the food craving, except replacing food with a person!. For you to be willing to take my cum into your mouth, is like it is still kinda dirty and kinky, but it is also super intimate thing, like showing you that there are almost no boundaries to how much I crave you inside and out.

  • I find it really hard to believe that swallowing someone's semen is SO epicly emotionally connecting and accepting towards someone.

    It's one thing to find it sexy visually but another to try to make it out to be this special thing. It really isn't. It's just semen in your mouth. That's it. That's what it's all about. Seeing his semen in your mouth. It has nothing to do with acceptance. That's BS.

    • a lot of women say that they feel closer to a man after he has ejaculated in her vagina but lets use your logic shall we it's one thing to find it sexy but another to try to make it out to be this special thing. It really isn't. It's just semen in a vagina. That's it. That's what it's all about. feeling semen in her vagina. It has nothing to do with emotional closeness. That's BS now do you see how you sound?

    • @Nicolás25 You can't compare cumming inside a girl's vagina with in her mouth. That is not even nearly the same thing dude.

    • For men, it can be. That is the thing that you seem to misunderstand.

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  • It depends on the guy... Every guy has a different view of things.. My man says he doesn't mind if i spit or swallow but he likes when i swallow thats just him though.. He said there's nothing emotional now that i asked him... Maybe it does to your man though..

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  • You should never do anything you're not comfortable with, although I can imagine he did mean what he said.

  • Who cares if it ~~means something~~ to him? He's being a manipulative asshole, and you shouldn't feel forced to it for him.

    • I agree.

    • How is he being manipulative? He didn't force her or employ some nefarious tactic, he simply asked her. It also seemed like that was the first time that he asked her. That's what you do when you're in a relationship.

    • Sounds like a guilt-trip to me. "It would meaaaan something" nah dude it's just cum, calm down lmfaooo

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  • I couldn't care less about it

  • He believes you finally complete him.

    • But you can't know... For ex. If the semen, taste like bad mofo shit, i doubt you gonna feel good about doing it. The most important thing is to be honest about it if you don't feel comfortable to do it.

    • I read the question again. He just sounds like a mofo dominating dickhead!!! For wanting you to do it but you don't feel comfortable about it.

    • Sounds like he said those words to possibly manipulate you (if you acquiesce to his whims)

  • "Does it mean something to you (emotionally) when a girl swallows your cum?"
    No, but it does that she she finishes me in her mouth. What she does with my DNA after is up to her.

  • It means something emotional. If you don't want to swallow, don't. But he's not lying, and he's being very nice about it.

    To all the people who believe the guy in this question is a horrible person for asking her to do this -- you're very special snowflakes!

  • i love it. it feels accepting and appreciated for.

  • What it means to me emotionally is 'Wow! That is one nasty ho.'

    • All of you downvoting this are all lying sacks of shit. And you know it.

    • I didn't down vote you I was literally LMAO!!

    • BOOO

  • The thought of semen swallowing is DISGUSTING and REPULSIVE.

    I don't see it as anything "emotional" (as most guys would say) don't be pressured into doing something like that if you really don't want to. It's absolutely grotesque how some men can be turned on by that...

  • in my opinion it jus means u a nasty hoe

    • Not.. Fucking.. True

  • If you want to see if it actually means something to him, turn the table on him and ask him this: "Next time you cum in me, it would mean a lot to me if you will lick me clean"

    See how he responds

  • Would this be the same with homosexual relationships?

    • Same deal dude. Man/woman. It's all the same

  • It makes us feel like she wants us. It's hard to explain but when a girl does I get really turned on to her

  • To me it absolutely does mean something emotionally. I can't really explain the full extent of it but seeing a girl swallow my cum makes me feel closer very close to her. But if you don't feel comfortable doing it, then don't do it.

    • makes me feel very close to her*