Does it offend men if?

Does it offend men if they either wake up to, or come home to their wife (or girlfriend) masturbating with a viborator?
Would you sit down and watch? How about join in and help? Would it turn you on? Would it turn you off? Would you get mad?
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  • The only part that would bother me would be that she kept is a secret from me till then. I would enjoy watching and I would enjoy helping. Maybe become confused because I can't make up my mind between just enjoying the view and helping her. It would be a definite turn on!

  • That’s probably a problem because how many times are they doing that a Day and then when I want sex they’re not in the mood

    • What if she just wanted to make sure that when you are ready, that she too will be ready. Sometimes a woman getting that first "O" is kind of difficult. She has never hid her curiosity about her own body and sexuality. She was married to the same guy for 20 years, and never really got the opportunity for self exploration?

    • *She is now divorced and is in a new relationship.

    • What do you mean she was curious about her own sexuality? Is she bi? That would explain why she masturbates in private

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  • Nomptonlem

    • Not sure I understand your response. Do you mean, No problem?

    • Not a problem…if you let be join in…I’m pretty magical and tap a couple spots inside if you want to keep your keepin ON….

  • Join in and help!

  • I don't think it would offend me. Curious about why, worried that I may not be enough, turned on and hopeful to join... But not offended.

  • That's a turn on for me as long as she does it for being too horny and can't wait for me to come home. I'd love to help her with her masturbation but finish her off myself at the end.

  • It might be offending if she do it instead of sex, but it also shows that she not a frigid.

    • Definitely does not masturbate over sex.

    • Then I don't see where is the problem.

  • My girlfriend, then 22-24 when I was 26-29 masturbated with me and alone, for a long time. She never used a vibrator, but then used her fingertips of her right hand, to rub her clitoris. I had never seen a girl masturbate before that, and simply assumed that only guys 'jacked off" and that girls were immune to the desire to orgasm.
    I later found from a college friend, that she and her then boyfriend, also masturbated together.

  • She would be more discreet about it, like I am.

  • I'm not offended if I see my SO pleasuring herself. I watch and ask her if she'd like some "assistance". My SO actually likes me to jerk off and cum on her tits while she uses her vibrator... I'm more than happy to oblige.

  • only if she doesn't let me join xD

  • That would depend on how often it happened without me! You could just wait till I get home!! I would help if she wanted me to. Maybe she doesn't, maybe she just wants me to watch!

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