Does it. sound like he isn't into sex with me if he masturbates a lot?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have very good sex every day. But he masturbates so much sometimes that by the time he gets to have sex with me, his cum is watery and clear which makes me feel like he isn't actually Cumming. If I am satisfying him sexually why does he feel the need to masturbate so much? I'm completely fine with him masturbating, but sometimes I feel like he prefers it over sex because he does it before I come over and his cum is watery and small. It makes me think he doesn't really enjoy me. If I was satisfying in bed, I'm sure he wouldn't need to masturbate this much right?

[AustinMan]

Talk to him about it.


How to Talk to Your SO About Sex ↗

[summiter]

I'm sure he enjoys you and you are doing nothing wrong. As you now know all younger guys jerk off frequently... they just won't admit it. Maybe offer to give him some handjobs if he feels like masturbating? Do you ever go for round 2 or 3 during sex... if not try it and it may slow him down. Don't worry if his cum is watery or not.

[bowenw]

If someone is fulfilling me sexually I never feel the need to masturbate unless we have to be apart for an extended time. Could he be bored? Do you need suggestions to spice things up?

[Twalli]

Not really, he's still cumming with you. You're not trying g to procreate yet, are you?

[devil_8888]

You are right... he’s not quite enjoying sex with you...

[Asker]

He wouldn't need to masturbate this much if he actually liked the sex with me?

[devil_8888]

Right..,

[PeterCharie1991]

He's lying to you babe

[Asker]

He's lying about what?

[PeterCharie1991]

Saying you satisfy him in bed

[CubaPirate]

What a wanker

[kareka]

Hello i have the answer i think
I have the same problem here lol

[RomulusToda]

Well if he does it before fucking you it's too last longer while fucking you. He might also be very horny and doesn't want to vobdtsnted be putting you through dealing with that.

[Asker]

No we fuck everyday. Sometimes twice a day..

[RomulusToda]

If say talk to him about it and see what he says if you haven't already

[Anonymous]

No you can't conclude this just because someone prefers to masturbate over sex.

[Anonymous]

He is not interested in the real thing bcoz he seems to be addicted to this. Better ask him to get out of this and help as much as possible.

[Anonymous]

I could understand why if he wasn’t having enough sex with u but that’s not what’s going on here so that may be something you’ll have to ask him or talk to him about.

[Asker]

He says that sex with me is great and all. But I feel like maybe he just tells me things to make me feel better..

[Opinion Owner]

And that’s possible too. When he fucks u, does he lasts long or does he cum quick?

[Asker]

Sometimes he chums quickly, but other times he tries to hold it back so we can fuck longer.

[Asker]

*cums

[Opinion Owner]

Ahh so when he cums, can he keep going or is he a one shot and done?

[Asker]

He just cums once. Does it sound like he doesn't enjoy me very much sexually?

[Opinion Owner]

That or he just prefers to masturbate instead of having sex with u. Does he eat u out and try to make u cum?

[Asker]

Yes he does

[Opinion Owner]

And how is he at that? Does he always make u cum?

[Asker]

Yes he does great for me. I just feel like he doesn't enjoy me sexually.

[Asker]

I feel like maybe I am bad at sex

[Opinion Owner]

Ahh. Would u like to chat more in private or u ok with here?

[Anonymous]

Some people just prefer masturbation