Does keep counting the number of condoms in his wardrobe normal?

Question

So, I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 months. He's the type of guy who spends his free time reading or watching and far from the nightlife.
Lately he's been working until late, which I believe because I know he has been very busy due to his deadlines and I am friends with his coworkers on social media. We only meet on the weekend for the last 1 month.

So there was one night where I was at his house and we were having sex (we use protection most of the time) he grabbed a condom from his drawer and I could see he only had 2 left there (he always got a box of three). And what concerns me is that I remember last time we had sex, we used the last condom. I never really counted how many condoms in his drawer before until that night I saw he had an opened box of condom and it only two condoms left. Since then I keep counting and only last night I noticed that one condom is missing too. I thought maybe he had a posh wank during the week we didn't see each other but he said he never touched himself the week we didn't see each other. There is a liiiiiiiittttle possibility too that I count it wrong or forget how many condoms were left the weekend before.

Should I confront or am I just being paranoid?

Massageman · Accepted Answer

"Keep [ing on] counting the number of condoms is [his] wardrobe" WOULD seem rather odd.
That said, there are any number of reasons for the apparent change in the number. Miscount, moved to another location, put in wallet to be ready, etc.
I wouldn't worry about things just yet - as long as you or he have at least one new one! ;- )

Hans222 · Accepted Answer

Could it be that he took a condom and put it away, for example in his wallet, for when he needs it away from home? Let's hope it's not what you're afraid of, but just don't panic :D

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If you’re worried talk to him about it. But don’t let the number of condoms be the only reason. There are tons and tons of reasons that either A: you miscounted or B: the missing condom would be for something else (like practicing with it, gave one to a friend, lied about wanking, etc).

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

Well, are you two exclusive or not? If you haven't discussed this, then it's pointless to be counting his condoms. Ask him and ask if he wants to be exclusive if you do. You may find out he doesn't and that's why the count is off. So you may have the change boyfriends.

coolbreeze · Answer

Maybe he put the other condom in another draw or moved it some where else. When he goes to the bathroom sneak in the draw and fully check to see if the other condom is in their. Maybe he moved it and misplaced it.

Anoniemus · Answer

Nice work.

There isn't a reason for him to polish off inside of a condom when he can simply wipe himself down or shower. That fucker is doing something he shouldn't. I wouldn't confront him just yet.

Take a picture of the condoms, splayed out with how many there are. And then take a picture the next time you're over there. If it's less, ask him.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I don't know... he could be like me and just keeps condoms for his AR-15

roland77 · Answer

You seem not to trust him or he is nto trusting you by counting condoms. And beside, #Cunnilingus and #Fellatio and any other sexual activity can be done without a condom.