Does my boyfriend like my blow jobs?

[yourfavgirl]

When I give my boyfriend blow jobs he just sits there quietly and sometimes holds my hair. Rarely makes a sounds. It also takes about 10 minutes for him to cum. I feel bad too because by the 10 minute mark I start getting tired of doing it, but I don't show it. I feel like 10 minutes is awhile because my friends say it only takes them around 5 minutes to finish a guy. I am normally enthusiastic and don't use teeth lol. I feel like I'm doing every at least decently okay. I just don't understand. He will ask for me to give them to him and say its good, but he is one of those people who does not want to upset anyone. Am I overthinking it or not? Is 10 minutes a long time? Any tips

[ArianaA]

Yes, 10 minutes of sucking a dick is a long time, to be honest. It is a lot of work especially if your guy has a big cock. I think he must be purposefully trying to hold onto his load instead of just letting it go.

I had this same problem with my old boyfriend. He wanted to make my blowjobs last as long as he could (which I understood because my mouth feels good on his dick) but I told him that it wasn't enjoyable to me if he took too long, and then he understood. I told him to go ahead and spurt his load in my mouth as fast as he could and that I don't mind when he cums fast. After that he would give me his sperm in under 5 minutes. I always ate it. Do you eat you BF's cum too?

[kaylaS91]

Why don't you ask him that question? Basically tell him everything that you've told us here. That you find it hard to believe if he actually likes them or is okay with receiving them more out of obligation. If he still insists that he likes them, let him know that you'd love if he made it a bit more apparent by say, making actual noises like an occasional groan, 'fuck that feels good', etc. to help you gauge what works and what doesn't.

[tinyclit]

Ten minutes is a good long time for you to be pleasuring him and it's not too long for him to cum. If he's cumming then you're doing a good job and he likes what you're doing. Be sure to always swallow and then to lick and suck his cock squeaky clean. Sex is very mental, so tell him his cum was delicious and that you enjoyed swallowing it, then thank him. That should blow his mind. :)

[SLT93]

If he continues to ask you for them and he doesn't complain & you're happy to please him then the jobs a goodem'.

[Anonymous]

If he didn't enjoy them he wouldn't be asking you for them. As you're doing it, ask him what he likes and do it. You can also watch videos and learn some new techniques.

10 minutes isn't that long. My ex used to do it for 40+ minutes (but yeah that's excessively long. 20 is about the norm.

[Sholax]

Different strokes for different folks. Probably just has some solid stamina or is silent because he's concentrating so hard on trying not to end the fun. If you want more noise then tell him, he should start expressing himself more if he knows you like it.

[AlphaMale1]

If his cock stays hard during the blow job he is loving it. And you are getting out of this easy as I can last way over a half hour from a blow job. This is why a blow job is often the start and end of when we have sex.

[abc3643]

If he cums, he likes your blowjobs. Don't worry coz different guys pop at different rates and many factors are involved in determining that rate.

[abundantlyrich]

He is probably thinking... why is she always doing this?

[Nuala]

If he gose soft you aren't doing it good, if he stays hard your good.

[SuicidalTeen]

It's a BJ, what's not to like about it lol

[Anonymous]

I make little noise when I cum, I might pant or breathe heavy, but other than that I'm silent. :-)
I'm sure your bjs are amazing. ;-)

[Anonymous]

Just ask him if there's anything he'd like you to do differently to make it even more enjoyable.

[Anonymous]

You are lucky, my boyfriend takes at least 30 minutes. But he was enjoying it.