Does my boyfriend not like when I ride him?

The first time I asked him yesterday he said that I wasn’t bad that I was fine (at riding) and then when I asked him again through text last night if I was bad at riding him he told me “you’re not baby I promise I love it though when you go down on me 🥰🥰🥰” I don’t know if I’m bad because he just described it as fine I told him though that being on top for me doesn’t feel as good for me because I don’t feel anything unless I squat and squatting is hard for me so yesterday during sex he just chose to be on top the whole time. When I’m on top I bounce a lot while I’m on my knees not squatting and then I only squat for a little bit. Him describing that I’m just fine on top makes me feel bad and like I’m not good.
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  • When you are on top, you can rest your weight on him and move your body back and forth in horizontal motions that will maximize the stimulation of your clit. You will think it is fantastic and rave about what a great thing cowgirl is. However, most guys get almost NO arousal from that experience. Our arousal comes from stimulation from base to tip of our dick and, to do that while riding, you would need to be raising and lowering your torso in a vertical motion. That requires much more effort by you and it provides virtually no stimulation of your clit, so not many women spend much time in that motion.

    Girl on top is something that we let girls do because they like it and not because it is good for us. Reverse cowgirl may be more arousing for your guy but less arousing for you.

    And, yes, receiving oral sex from our girlfriend always feels much better.

    • I am bouncing up and down vertically everything I do is vertically lol

    • Okay, then you are a rare woman! And maybe he just doesn't like the idea of you being in control?

    • Does he like missionary but LOVE doggy?

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  • Try this next time when you sit up on them just sit on him get yourself position just right so you slide your hips forward on him and in backwards do it in slow motion so you get him soaking wet you just for a few minutes teasing him and seducing him and didn't slide up all the way on him pull up between your legs start stroking it for him. Pretend like it's yours stroke it in slow motion tell him if his girlfriend was there exactly what you would do to her see how long you left then you know how good you are. And I'm sorry about you not being able to feel anything it should be like a telephone pole anyway try reverse cowboy see how that works

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  • Firstly don't feel bad. Even though you could tell his response wasn't great it's better this way because you don't want him to lie to you. You have to either accept what he said and move on or you can further the discussion with him.

    When I say further the discussion you have to openly talk to him and get his real feed back. Ask him what he does and doesn't like, ask if you can try something new, ask what he would like to do while you ride him. But don't forget about yourself try other positions and different motions to see what you like.

    In the end you might like to ride one way and he enjoys another way. Once you know what you both like you can do it both ways to maximize the pleasure you both feel.

  • Wtf he don't like it when u ride on it.

    • I mean I don’t know?

    • He is such a asshole.

    • I’m not sure though if he doesn’t he says that I do fine

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  • He probably doesn't care either way and he also might like you to have some pleasure since it doesn't do much for you more then you riding him. Also if you don't do it much you might have to practice and do it more to get better at. Practice makes perfect lol.

  • From what I read it sounds like you are doing everything right. I just think it's your boyfriend. Maybe he just isn't enjoying it. Some guys don't like being submissive in the bedroom. That's why he flips you over and gets on top of you.

  • Well for anyone to say you are not good at this is dumb. People always think they know so much. People want different stuff. So many girls tell me that if she didn’t do this she was not into it. Or, no girls like that. Great sex day one with people is not as common as many think. Sometimes people will blame rather than improve.

  • Overthinking it girl. 😉

  • Hows your rhythm?

  • He responded badly, you need to learn more to show your skills.

    • But when I asked him if I was good he said that I was because I got on my feet and everything so I’m not sure. Do you really think that he thinks that I’m bad? He has always asked me if I wanted to be on top but yesterday he didn’t

    • Everytime that I ask him though he says that I’m fine and that makes me doubt myself even more. I really don’t think I’m doing anything wrong I bounce on his penis when I’m on my knees then I move back and forth then j squat for a little bit and go up and down. But he doesn’t really let me do it for long he instantly flips me over so that he’ll go on top

    • Yes, he think you are bad thats why he responded like that later.

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  • Unfortunately, us men crave head, especially after getting amazing head.. Probably nothing against you from his standpoint, he just wants the mouth? Lol just being honest

  • This question fills me with resentment because it reminds me that I was single and celibate during my teens and early 20s