Does my friends with benefits likes me?

Hi! I don’t understand my friends with benefits, we’ve known each other for an year and our relationship it always has been about sex we never talked about anything it was just physical. He always says that I am special for him and obviously he is special for me but he never wanted a relationship other than sex. Lately I’ve been seeing a guy that I like and I can see myself with when I told him, he said that he didn’t want to stop our “relationship” and that he wanted to see me for one last time and he was hoping that I will chance my mind and continuing to be friends with benefits. He also said that he likes me that he has a special bond with me and if he could go back in time he would think about us in a serious relationship, And also said to me let’s pretend to be together and call each other with pet names. He was really into that he didn’t want me to stop calling him cute name so I thought that maybe he wanted to date me or something and I suggested to go out for a drink but he declined and wanted me to go to his house instead and never stopped talking about sex. So my question is what is wrong with him does he like me or what? he doesn’t want me with another guy but he wants to pretend to be a couple but he’s not making any move and doesn’t initiate a serial conversation that is not sexual. Honestly I’m tired of him but I just need to know because I kinda like him

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  • He said "he wishes he can go back in time so he would think about yous in a serious relationship". Meaning now that you 2 are in this friends with benefits, he will never see you as girlfriend material, you already ruined that by being his friends with benefits. That is why he is saying lets be in a "pretend relationship" because he will never date you but he doesn't want to lose the sex because you want a relationship. So go with the new guy...

    • At first he didn’t like me at all and he initiated this friend with benefit bullshit that’s why I was confused by him acting like that. Not gonna lie there’s no one last time because I am tired of his behavior

    • Why would you be friends with benefits with a guy who doesn't even like you tho? I see, but don't believe his lies guys will just try to confuse you to keep you with them. He just enjoys the sex.

Most Helpful Girl

  • friends with benefits, never fails someone eventually gets attached and feelings. sounds like he likes you but in his mind you are not girlfriend material because he's hooking up with you. do yourself a favor and break it off

Most Helpful Guys

  • Sounds like he kinda likes you but it also sounds like he is into it for mostly the sex. As you know a friends with benefits can't go on forever... sooner or later you each will find someone you want a real relationship with. How often are you getting together for sex? Are you enjoying it or is it just about him and some fin orgasms for him?

  • Well I think if your with another guy you like that means your friends with benefits relationship is over with this guy and he doesn't want that. He just trying to give you a ultimatum of stay being friends with benefits with him or be with a another guy.

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  • No, he just wants to keep having his cake and eating it too- he gets sex without having to commit or do anything else a boyfriend would do. Date this other guy and tell the friends with benefits to get lost.

  • friends with benefits are friends first. Friends like friends. A friends with benefits is not a "fuck buddy" with no content of fondness.

  • It sounds like he likes you.

  • Well, it’s pretty simple. Why don’t you just talk to him about it

  • Obviously, or he wouldn't be with you.

  • Your friends with benefits is trying to play you he just wants to keep fuckin you and he knows if you get into a relationship you won't fuck him anymore. He's selfish just thinking of himself move on you've wasting enough time with him. If he wanted to be your man why wait until now to say it. Don't fall for the bullshit

  • You did say friends with benefits, not fb

  • you should prolly stick with the friends with benefits this new guy doesn't seem to connect with you