Does (only) oral sex count as your first time sex or does it have to be with penetration?

When you’ve only had oral sex at 16 and penetration at 17.. when was “your first time” then?

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  • 15 and 1/2 almost 16 for penetration. And it was the worst ever well it's a long story but anyway the same girl three more times and it turned out to be the most beautiful thing ever but anyway I'll tell you that sometime lol I don't remember I think I honestly don't remember probably 18 19 maybe 17 probably more like 19 LOL

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  • There is no hard and fast rule. For me there is a very different level of intimacy when comparing oral and vaginal sex. I personally consider the "first time" to be penetrative vaginal sex. I have had a significantly more amount of people I was comfortable giving oral to versus people whom I would have sex with

  • I would count each act separately so first oral, first sex first anal first three some and so on. But whatever comes first is your first sexual experience but not necessarily your loss of virginity

    • boob sucking?

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  • Depends for me I'd just count penetration and anal!

    Oral just one person likes it so not sex.

  • Your first time for oral was 16 and your first time for penetration was 17.

    "Count?" Count for what? Count for losing your virginity?

  • Look at what it is called. Oral sex. So it is one form of sex and counts.

  • You were sexually active at 16 and ended your virginity at 17, which by convention was your ‘first time’. I hope you enjoyed both.

  • when he's inside you

  • For some absurd reason you are a virgin until a penis is in your vagina but you are sexually active once you've done your first sexual thing with another person.

  • You're a virgin until you've had some guy's dick inside your warm, sweet pussy.

  • No one is counting.

  • 17, it's gotta be penetration I think

  • First time usually means no longer a virgin, and that involves penetrative sex, intercourse. So, for you, 17 was your first time.

    But it's just a term, everyone is a virgin... until they are not.

  • Oral sex is just another degree of sexual intimacy. Like kissing and fondling. PIV AND PIA stand alone.

  • I don't think virginity is a social construct and it is only lost at first penetration. If you kissed at 15 was that your first time sex? Splitting hairs gets a bit silly.

  • I wouldn't count it. I'd count penetration.

  • Nahh how can it be

  • I’d say if you are looking for the first time you had sex - when you lost your virginity then that would be when you were age 17

  • Yes if it's with another girl. No if it's with a guy.

  • Oral doesn't count as sex. It's foreplay if anything.

  • Oral sex is sex. So it counts.

  • In my opinion, yes. Would you think that a prostitute who has never had intercourse but has only given oral would be a virgin?

  • Penetration

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