Does Penetration make the Girl kinda submissive in your view?

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  • Being penetrated no matter what will always be a submissive act. You will always take it. Even if it’s riding, you’re just merely obeying orders, because ultimately, the penetrator is still in control.

    The majority of the time, the woman just lies there and waits for the man to feed.

    • I think that depends on person.

  • Penetration is a dominant act. I don't see that there's a lot of debate to be had there. Fellatio is whole 'nohter matter.

    • Even when she is riding on top?

    • When she's in the saddle, I can still reach up and control her, throw her off, and dictate who is going to do what to whom when.

    • But she could do the same then.

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  • I tend to be pretty dominant during sex, even if I'm not on top. So nah I'd say that penetration itself doesn't make anyone submissive.

    • It's interesting how different views people have.

    • I've read through some of the other comment threads. I'd say it's more annoying than interesting. Lol Sex is sex. Penetration is irrelevant. It's the mentality and approach to sex that makes it dominant or submissive.

    • Yes very annoying. Why do you think that is?

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  • When I am being penetrated by my husband, I FEEL like I am submitting to him, yes. But everyone has their own opinion.

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  • Penetration is a natural act, the two sexes have been created with the view of one sex entering the other. Their is no submission and no dominance - its two sexes making love with each other and while making love such differences do not matters.

  • I guess that may depend on the position but no I view it that I am doing as much submitting in the act as she is. She may let me in to her body but I need to ask and then I need to watch for how fast I can go how deep I can go. There is a lot about it that goes both ways.

  • No because in life there are women who have penatrative sex are extremely dominant in the bedroom. Submission has very little if anything to do with simply being penetrated.

    • Lol i got downvoted. For what? Saying woman are not submissive for having a dick put inside there body? 10/10 love the internet folks. 🤣

  • I feel like I am submitting to him when he is inside me.

  • Plus one for a thought-provoking question. This is a un- researched unscientific guess. I think penetration MAY cause the release of some sort of hormone that somewhat immobilizes a girl and causes her to lay still while she's having sex. But this could be complete and utter nonsense too.

    • Thought provoking? Its opinionated. That would mean any female who has ever had penatrative sex is submissive when i can infact direct you to hundreds of women who have had sex with a male or female (being penetrated) and they are extremely dominant.

    • @Egoless_M0rtal the question is how it is during penetration.

    • @asker. Have you ever herd of femdom porn? Ir a dominatrix? During penetration they sre dominant

  • I do not really see how that would be the case.

    • Because one person is taking another person's body inside themselves and the other person is in charge of putting it there. Pretty simple.

  • No... but I have never viewed sex as a dominate/submissive act that is strangely seems to be these days. Just used to be a damn pleasurable activity and if it is really pleasurable together you kept on doing it. That was that.

    • It has a lot to do with porn i guess.

    • Beats me. Porn was around and quite prevolent long before me. What has changed is our social interaction... or lack of. But hey, social media makes us more social! Bullshit...

  • no. penetration is how sex works. you can make him penetrate you by sitting on him. penetration isn't inherently submissive.

    • Yes it is.

    • @Thatsamazing so if a girl chains you up on the floor, leaving you no way to move or get away and then fucking the shit out of you, using you like a sex toy, that's "submissive"?

    • Um no girl is going to chain me up on the floor, so no. "And then fucking the shit out of you" I can't tell if you're being figurative here or not-- the penetrated party in sex is the one getting fucked, not the one fucking. That is simply logical. So if this girl that likes chains for some reason were to use a strap-on on me, sure, she's fucking me and I guess I'd be the "submissive" one in that case, I suppose. If she's getting my dick and being penetrated, she is the submissive one. This isn't hard.

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  • Dominance and submission is mostly a psychological thing that is reinforced by what you do physically.. so no.

  • Yes. Naturally. Girls don't fuck-- they *get* fucked. It's just our anatomy. It's not a big deal.

    • Youve never met a dominatrix then.

    • @Egoless_M0rtal No I haven't, not that that matters. The only way a girl can fuck a guy is if she's wearing a strap-on or using a toy or something in his ass.

    • I guess that depends on your definition of fucking. I would have to disagree with you on that. She may be recieving dick. But that doesn't "naturally" make them the submissive one and i also disagree that a woman needs to use a toy or strap-on to fuck someone.

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  • I would not call that submissive.
    From what I’ve observed, women build up anticipation, and when you finally enter her, it takes her breath away, her eyes roll back, and her hips move up. Pure enjoyment

  • I am submissive and my fiancée fucks my ass often with her strapon

  • its actually natural process of sex so it must be done.

  • Uh duh

  • If she is top then id say no.

    • And bdsm

  • Nope, I'm always on top and totally dominant.

  • No it doesn't.

  • No. Not when she is on top, doing all the work!

    • Do you feel dominant sometimes during sex?

    • Being on top doesn't matter.

    • I don't know if being penetrated without feeling submissive is possible. That's why i asked.

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